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Do men think its odd if...?
OK so I have a question for all the guys..or woman whoever. I just got out of a year an a half relationship who just didnt want to commit to me..Im a single mother and he wasnt ready. Anyways I would love to start dating but Im not sure if I want anything serious..but if someone comes into my life and it becomes serious im not complaining. Anyways..Do men think its odd if a girl wants to get out there and date again after after only a couple of days or getting out of another relationship? Im not looking for any one night stands or anything im ready for someone who wants a family lifestyle with me and Im willing to wait for that someone.
I wanted him to commit I was ready for it he just refused to..The relationship did mean a lot to me but Im just asking for the future.
6 Answers
- AndyLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
Odd, no. Proves he was right not to commit since it clearly meant nothing to you though.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
no wanting to be in a relationship is fine but as long if you know what you want cos to begin a great relationship know what you want, know what the needs of your body are, what the needs of your mind are and what fits well with you, there are millions of men and some will make a good match for you and others won't, the two of you only need to be like a key in the lock a match that works, but just make sure you put your kids first and don't bring too many men into there lives especially if they are small children like around 3 or 5, I know being a single mom is tough so if you want to chat sometime I would love too just IM me
- 1 decade ago
Go for it! At least you didn't stick around for the one that wouldn't commit to you. There is no time period you must wait before you can date again. I would avoid telling your date that you just broke up or else he may think you are on a major rebound or they he's a Pity Date. If he asks then by all means be honest but I wouldn't volunteer that information. All other topics should be open for discussion.
- The Big ELv 71 decade ago
You cannot find what you do not seek. I think you should get back on the love horse that just threw you. I applaud your desire to forget the past and press on to the greater achievements of your future.
One word of warning however. If you do find a replacement for him in your heart, and he learns of it, his competitive urge will be to try to win you back. Do not succumb to it if this should prove true. I proffer this advice based on the axiom "you fool me once, shame on you -- you fool me twice, shame on me". It is, however, your life to live. Good luck.
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- 1 decade ago
I dont think its strange...You knew for a while your last relationship was not going where you needed it to.
Lifes too short to wait for others to grow up!!!
I hope you find what your looking for, and happiness!!!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
go for it ! only you know wether or not your ready to go out there and date again .. no one else can judge you on that. and if you are ready dont hesitate you know what you want go for it :)
