my gf and i are having sex and im worried she said shes bin vary tender down there is she pregnant?

lol you're so cute. she's tender because she's just started having sex. ease up on the sex for a few days, use protection and the pill also for a back up plan. also make sure you two are really ready for the consequences that come along with having sex. what if she really did get pregnant? do you know what you would do?

obviously, if she was a virgin she will be quite sore & tender for as many times as it takes her to get use to sex. It doesnt mean she's pregnant, but if you guys dont use condoms or birth control she could be. if you're really that worried, have her take a pregnancy test.

She might be tender from sex but not from pregnancy. You better be wearing a condom and using spermacide and she needs to be on the pill too.

if yall are doing it a LOT she might loose the tenderness a lil if you take a small break from it.

I agree with wishfulthinking and snowwillow.