Is having sex at 13 a bad thing?

are you kidding me?

first of all its illegal

and second of all thats just .. @#$&#*#$ wrong (pardon my french)

what has the world come to? thirteen year old's having sex.. really?

do you want a baby at thirteen years old?

you are not mentally mature enough for sex. my god.

don't beat yourself up over it, whats done is done and having people bash you on here for being a "whore" isn't going to do your mental health any good. people make mistakes. people have sex. be thankful that you didn't get pregnant or catch an STD. just know that you are in Control over your body and Just because you've had sex in the past doesn't mean you have to continue having sex, if you still feel you are too young then don't have sex again until you feel you are mature enough and won't regret it.

I lost my virginity at 15, i thought i was old to be losing it then, i was one of the last girls in my grade, so clearly a lot of girls were havin sex at 13 & 14 when i was younger. Looking back i think that 15 is so young. but peer pressure is a major factor as any young girl will tell you.

i don't think this questionw as a good idea because you basically set yourself up for being called names. i'd delete the question if i were you.

I don't think your a Slut. but i do think you were young. even you agreed.

I'm turning 17 tomorrow and I had sex a month after turning 16. Even now, I see that I was way too young. 13 is just hitting puberty, and it's too young to know how much sex can affect your life. It's a trend, and I hope it dies soon! We won't be able to feed everyone in the world if teens keep having babies this early!

Yeah, that's pretty young. Too many young people are trying to do adult things these days. There"s the worry of diseases and pregnancy which most young teens don't think about. At thirteen you're still a child, people should wait till they truely know who they are and are old enough to think with a clear mind about what they are doing and what the consequences are. Still, don't let it get to you. It's done now, just work on your actions in the future

Absolutely. Virginity is such a precious thing; and giving it away at such a young age is giving every guy you've ever had sex with the wrong idea. It makes them think that they can do what ever they want with you, because you're easy to get. It shows them you have no self respect. If you want a man that appreciates you for your dignity and inside beauty, I think you shouldn't have sex until you know the person you're having sex with is someone you know you will be spending the rest of your life with. I recommend waiting until marriage.

Hope I helped :]

I think having sex is wrong when you still live at home with your parents and if your old enough to handle certain consequences that comes with having sex. Such as pregnancy and STD's....I felt bad by losing mines at 15 because I know I could have of waited. So yes I think it's wrong.

yes! imagine having a baby at 13, do you know how horrible that would be. if you got an std to somebody who you might not be with forever, because you made a 13 year old mistake. gosh it is bad. but everybody makes mistakes, and you cant go back in the past.

Yes, it isn't right, probably illegal, and very unhealthy. You were definitely nowhere near being fully developed down there which can cause serious problems, but you can't do anything about it now, so it's good you don't let it get to you. I regret things I've done as well (unmentioned). We live and we learn.

Best wishes.

I'd say its way way to young. I dont know how old you are now, but I know when I look at 13 year olds, i see young kids that are not developed and it grosses me out to think that kids that age are having sex.

Depends on what you think. Personally, if you really want to do it, I can't stop you, I don't even know you. But, I think you should wait until you're older to the point where (if anything went wrong where you got pregnant) you can bare a child.

That's my opinion.