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? asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

why do some men find it scary to call?

I had the first date with this guy last saturday and we obviously got along really well. I knew he was into it, and he admitted he was nervous when he rang me on friday night before our date. However he would like me to come listen to him play(instrument) at his apartment and he asked by text yesterday, i replied a few hrs later that it sounds great. he replied that he would call me soon on the same day and he never called. I know we re meant to see this evening but just wondering why he would say he would call and then not follow through. I know he's interested, but whats the deal here? I dont like guys who get too scared to ring or say what they want openly.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    don't be angry at him or anything it's not his fault hes just afraid of what you will think of him and doesn't want to mess things up.

    Source(s): (im just like that lol)
  • If you like the guy in the first place, it shouldn't matter if he's a little shy when it comes to the phone thing. There is awkwardness with a lot of people when it comes to dating. If you get along with a person after a few times of meeting, the awkwardness goes away anyway. You don't need to reject him because of a normal hesitancy by a lot of guys. Fear of rejection may be the very reason he isn't quick to call. You are just proving him right. Ease up, and you might get along with him in the long run.

  • 1 decade ago

    probably hes still nervous..it seems like people would rather text than call nowadays..new trend i guess..why dont u call him when he text u so u guys can talk on the phone?

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