girls or guys, wont you freak out as well>?

You are right, there are more to a guy than looks. Personality is what really matters most. Also, if this is what he is showing you and telling you then there is something wrong with him, I don't think that is normal. I mean you could go on the date with him and see how that goes and then decide from there.

That's kind of weird... Why would a guy keep talking about ex's, doesn't he know that's a big no no!? If you don't feel comfortable on the phone with him and he's already being bitter.. chances are going on a date with him will be pretty awkward i mean who knows what this guy is really like if he can't even put on a good front to talk to you on the phone. Don't get yourself into anything potentially dangerous. Maybe talk to him a few more times on the phone and ask him some things to get to know him before deciding to meet up with him :) good luck girl.

Hmmm, I would stay clear personally. As you say, there's more than just looks to think about and someone that goes around smarming about how "super-fit" they are isn't too attractive in my opinion.

Yeah, maybe the girlfriends he had in the past were jealous and untrusting. Was that because of his "super-fit" looks or was there something else going on? Whatever the reason, I feel it's a bit of a mistake to start swearing about it to you when, really, he doesn't even know you. I don't think it's particularly normal. We've all had bad experiences with past partners, including myself, but I wouldn't start shouting about it to some girl I'd just met, especially not if I was really interested in dating her. Sounds far too confrontational to me.

Of course, the decision is yours, but the fact that you're asking here, for me probably answers your question. If your having these doubts after only a week, what's going to be happening in a month?

Best of luck.

It's just happened to him one too many times and he fears it will happen again. Seems like he gets the same type of girls. You can put up with his insecurities if you decide to take the time and show him that you are not like the others --or , you can move on. It's your choice.

He's being this way to see if you will wait it out or go off in a different direction, like the others. If you don't need the drama, don't do it.

To be honest with you he sounds like a tosser from the way you said he talked about how 'super fit' he is on the phone. He may just be a bit nervous which would account for his swearing. However, if hes like this over the phone imagine what he'll be like in person... If you do feel strongly about him though, talk to him about his swearing and arrogance to see whats behind it. Hope all goes well x

we;ll it seems like he is laying it on real thick

saying things that normally shouldnt b said no matter how long the conversation ,..

he might b nervouse and didnt know were to stop but this guy sounds a little bit

Narcissistic AND in my honest opinion everything he said might b a hidden warning not to b with him cuz in that conversation he showed u his true side just a little

u should check how deep the water is b 4 u dive in ..

i would not follow through with the date he seems kind of off

but this is just my opinion tho

Yeah best thing is to cancel the date.

Sounds like he is still hung up over those past relationships and he's not ready to start on a clean slate with you.

If you go out with him, he's going to try and make you 'prove yourself' to him.

It's bullshit and he'll drag down your self confidence in the process.

So my advice is to not bother, don't even try being friends (more bother than it's worth).

Throw this fish back and cast the line again.

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you should meet him once in a public place and see he might be different in person but be careful if he spends all the time talking like that then end it there he seems quite bitter but i beleive in giving chances so i say try once

sounds like he is a jerk, go with your instinct or give him a chance & see what you think a lil bit further on