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If you ask your wife/partner for a towel and she throws it at the floor for you to pickup, what would you do?
specially that she could had hand it to you instead, it happened without any provocation from my side.
How would you describe her behaviour?
p.s she was tidying the lowndrie after I had them washed, hanged them to dry, collect them back to the house.
15 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Hi, sounds weird. She sounds upset. I don't think that's the right thing to do, though. Especially if you didn't even know she was mad. Actually it's not respectful. I think she owes you an apology. Unless you did something really awful like cheating on her, I think it's too much to throw a towel on the floor for you to pick up.
PS I have a question up, would you mind taking a look at it?
- Jas BLv 71 decade ago
I would describe this as the behaviour of an unhappy woman. I would take it as a sign that my marriage was in some difficulties and that my partner was unhappy. There is obviously a lot more going on here than this minor incident.
I would then find a time when we were both in a relaxed mood and had the time to sit down and have a good talk to try to find out what the problems are and attempt to work out a way to make things better.
Good communications is the key to a good marriage/partnership, this involves listening, which is just as important as doing the talking.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
to me, it sounds like she feels she is doing it all, and you are doing nothing but asking her for this and that. is this true? if so, help her out a bit more.
the only other thing i can think of is there is something else going on between you two, u didnt leave enough info to say.
ultimately though, she is probably just knackered and was in a bad mood and you happened to ask her to do something at the wrong time.
next time, how about getting your own towel mate?
- CamMLv 51 decade ago
I would wonder what had happened to our marriage (and treating each other like the most special person in the world) for her to react that way. Either one of you or both of you, have let things slip. When the weather is cool, we warm the towels when the other one is in the shower!
New attitudes needed?? Good luck.
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- hazelleLv 41 decade ago
There is nothing more annoying as someone not rising to the bait. Pick it up, use it, put it on th rack. I have a hunch you always leave wet clothes and towels lying on the floor and she was tryig to get you to see how annoying it is to go around picking up stuff after someone else
- 1 decade ago
pick up the towel, say thank you and then ask if something is bothering them. Depending on the emotion behind the towel throw will help to determine what's going on with them and in what tone you talk to them.
- 1 decade ago
If you did not provoke her, it sounds like she wants to get some kind of reaction out of you for attention or whatever. Pick up the towel, ask her what her problem is, and tell her how childish that was. Also tell her that if want to talk or say something to you there are better ways.
- dpcarras2007Lv 51 decade ago
maybe she just doesn't have a good throwing arm. I would've have playfully brought the towel over to her put it around her neck brung her in for a kiss, then playfully asked why she was treating my like a dog. And if she really wanted to roleplay all she had to do was ask :)
- **Kevin**Lv 41 decade ago
I would have picked up the towel and strangle her to death with it, and if there was blood I would use the towel to clean it up. Hahaha, nooo I would've just picked it up, so whats the big deal?
- 1 decade ago
Send her back to the kitchen to get you a sammich. She's lucky she got to leave the kitchen in the first place, and that's how she acts? Hit her.
I hope this helps.