Do you think this is wrong?

Wrong, especially because her boyfriend is almost 18. That is illegal... I just hope she is using protection.

As for the second part yes she is moving too fast, and no you are not moving too slow. Do not feel pressured into doing stuff until you are ready.

I am 17 btw and I have never had sex, kissed a boy, or anything...

Too slow, too fast, it's not up to you to decide. You are are lesser risk of having an unwanted pregnancy or a sexually transmitted disease, be happy with being able to make your own choice. And only give your opinion if she asks for it. Personally I think sex at 14 can bring many problems if the people involved are not careful but I can't make that decision for everybody, only for myself.

Your friend is fast and will end up pregnant and unhappy. You sound like a good person stay in school and only hang around respectable kids your own age. Who the hell cares if she does not want to be friends with you, she will only be known as a whore.

Personally, I think its unwise to have sex that young. There could be serious, life changing results. But its her life and don't compare yours to hers. Just because your friend is making some bad choices doesn't mean that your life should change. Just stay true to yourself. And, I think that he may be using her but you never know. I mean, loves never had an age restriction.

Good luck!!

I'm around your age and am on your boat. I've never even been on a date with a guy. YES SHE IS MOVING TOO FAST! I can't imagine sleeping with a guy at 14. Stay away from her, you can't surround yourself with these kinds of people.

She's only 14, of course it's wrong!

At this rate, she'll be having babies in a few months.

Also, she's the one moving fast. Just slowly pace yourself, no need to rush into anything.

everyone moves at their own pace. you are deffinetly not moving slow, she may be moving fast, but who are we to judge. she'll be okay.

Ok . You are not moving too slow.

Of course it is wrong.