Why torture yourself?

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Actually I'm planning on going straight to the source && getting my answer but seeing as she's not around right now:

I have this friend && I've known her for a long time. She is openly gay, I am...well, I'm unlabel'd. O_o We've been through a lot. Fast forward, everything we've been through has only made our feelings for one another grow stronger. So yes, I love her, && I'm fine with that. She knows it. Vice versa. Fast forward again, she told me how she wants me really badly, knows she can have me, yet pushes me away. She's lik'd me for yeeears....

So my question is, why the hell would you do that to yourself? Why deny yourself something you KNOW you want when you can have it? && why push someone you love away?

Any idea why? && I actually want an answer to my question, so if you haven't a legit opinion, just skip it love.

Sambal Oelek · Accepted Answer

I did that too. I tried to date others, it didn't work. I realized that life is too short to deny happiness, and deny self.

So you have to wait until she is self-aware, I guess.

? · Answer

Maybe she thinks going out with you will ruin your close bond with each other, if something goes wrong. Or maybe she's just playing hard to get..

Mercedes · Answer

I know im soo late. but I wanted to say something. maybe she scared or like your said know she can have you . She comfortable she know you want her and she can get you anytime she wants, she know you probably always be around and want her. but I know your over it now loll

? · Answer

i skipped love a longtime ago

along came a spider · Answer

because she believes that she doesn't deserve you in any way

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