Help! I think my bf is gay or in the closet! Caught him on Tranny sites....HELP!?

Theres no need to think, you already know. If you caught him on a website watching a gay porn, MAYBE he could get away with it (although he shouldn't). But just the simple fact that he is actually COMMUNICATING WITH tranny's and gays, makes him extremely guilty. Not to mention, a secret e-mail address?? Whats up with that?

Since this is the second occasion, its best to just leave him alone. I don't know any man who would communicate with a tranny unless he is curious himself. Please, address the situation AGAIN, and make the final decision to leave. It's better to leave now, then to end up getting an STD on a cheating spouse. Please, think smart and look at it from a 3rd perspective yourself.

I wish you the best, because down-low men are the scariest things... you will find a true MAN

Firstly, you need to consider a few things.

1) Being curious does not make him gay, bisexual or anything else. It literally just means that he's curious and he's wondered what it's like.

2) It doesn't mean he's not into you.

Okay, with that said, we need to think what your options are right now.

I personally think that you need to talk to him, and ask him about whether or not he is sexually attracted to men and/or transvestites and/or transsexuals.

If he genuinely is just curious, or messing around, and still straight, there is no problem there - unless the thought of his curiosity freaks you out. in which case, you need to walk away.

If he's bisexual or sexually confused or something, once again, it depends on how it makes you feel to have a relationship with him.

And if he really is gay, I don't suppose a relationship is a great idea, but gay best friends are awesome!

(Mine is, anyways! :P)

I hope this helps you.

Good luck!

If he's giving out secret emails and trying to set up secret meetings you better dump him like a bad habit.

Pull him out of the closet

say you want a threesome with another guy. see how he reacts.