Boyfriend Not Talking To Me?

Question

On Thursday I text my bf asking him if he wanted to hang out, he said no, he'd rather take the night to himself. I said that's fine and went about my business because he never said anything after that. At midnight he said, so you just not going to talk to me, whatever. Threw this attitude. In the morning I tried to apologize, he threw more attitude and I asked him if he wanted me to leave he alone, he said that's fine.
It's Saturday now, not a word from him when we talk everyday all day and have been together for four years. This petty immature crap is ridiculous but I'm leaving him alone like he asked. Should I be the bigger person or leave him alone until he gets out of his funk?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Communication is key in a relationship, without it, the relationship will fail.

You're a human being and deserve to be treated with respect.

http://www.loveisrespect.org/is-this-abuse/healthy-relationships/

Take a look at the website, if you want.
It can give a lot of insight into what is healthy and what is not.

Tomb Raider · Answer

You did nothing for him to warrant an apology from you.I think if it were me that I would give him the space he needs,it could be that maybe he is having second thoughts about your relationship with him,there's an old saying that you don't know what you have until it's gone and absence makes the heart grow fonder.I would just go about your business and don't let him see that this bothers you.If you two are meant to be together it will happen.Just my thoughts.

Anonymous · Answer

You did absolutley nothing wrong, so you shouldn't apologize. Just text him asking him whats wrong, and if he gives you attitude then just ignore him and wait for him to stop being a little bititch. He is obviously just having some male PMS time ahaha

jenandscree · Answer

This is guy is playing the role of passive aggressive.  You have no reason to apologize to him for anything.   You can do way better than him.

dreamer · Answer

Just leave him alone, till he is the one who come to you and talk. He is only your bf, probably time you to know him who is real him.  Ignore and entertain yourself with something else, don'tt let him know that you bothered.

JodieBubzz · Answer

You shouldn't waste your time on such a hypocrite like him, i think you should get rid of him :)

Anonymous · Answer

why did you apologize ?  u did nothing he should say sorry not u

Amanda · Answer

DUMP HIM

Anonymous · Answer

text him. why not.

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