having a issue that i think is affecting my relationship. need help asap!?

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i dont know why but lately i've been geeting very jealous when my bf talks to other girls and hangs out with his friends. like whenever i looked at his phone, he doesnt save the # of some of the people he texts... they remain nameless though he knows who they are. that makes me suspicious.

secondly, when i ask him sometimes who was he just talking to on the phone he says "a friend" and he doesnt tell me exactly who until he sees that i'm aggrivated.

thirdly,  the other day he said he was going to delete his myspace page. a couple days ago i asked him for his password so i can go on his page. i wasnt going to look through his stuff, i was just going to fix his page up and make it nicer. but when i asked him for it he said he didnt remember his password. and that also made me suspicious.

am i over-reacting or do i have a reason to be suspicious?

and i've been getting jealous whenever he hangs out with his friends and i always think that there's going to be girls there. how can i stop being so jealous?

and i've also thought about having a friend text him to see what he'll say back if she tries to flirt with him?

am i over-reacting? please help me. i'm having some serious issues and i want them to stop.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I get what you are saying. I wouldn't Trust him. Everything sounds a bit fishy to me. I have to tell you this though... how you are constantly up his butt over who he talks to is going to drive him away. This will eventually cause him to dump you whether he is cheating or not. Jealousy is a HUGE turn off to guys. Sorry to tell you this.

So this is your path choices

A: Deal with his suspicious behavior and say nothing when you suspect hes cheating.
B: Nag him and question him until he dumps you
C: Find someone new because he's more than likely on his way out the door anyway. 


Good luck!

drg20202004 · Answer

You are asking the wrong question.  It should be "Why am I dating someone I don't trust?"  

If it is because you don't trust anyone, then you really shouldn't be dating until you grow up enough to do that. 

If he is not a nice guy, then you shouldn't be dating him. 

If it is because you have cheated in the past and now this makes you nervous as you are seeing similar patterns, then you have created your own misery and need to get over it.  

But if you can't trust him, you shouldn't date him.  And if you are not mature enough to accept the risk, then get out of the pool until you are ready. 

Dr.G

Tapestry6 · Answer

You are totally overreacting this is a casual relationship and you
are acting like you are married to the guy. back off and give him space or you will be history soon.

Anonymous · Answer

stop acting so crazy before he dumps you.

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