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Down Low? Denial? Please Explain Your Reasoning To Me!?
Long story but I'll try to sum this up:
I was at work Tuesday and met my supervisor's boyfriend. The problem was my supervisor is a man! I have no issues with gay people in general, but this guy I met swore me up and down that he wasn't gay!
WHAT!!!!! You're a man, having sex with another man! What do you classify that as, is the exact question I asked the boyfriend of my supervisor! He comes out of his ignorant mouth and says "I'm married to a woman and I got three kids!" I said ok, so you're on the DL! He literally went off!
He says to me that " a hole is a hole, no matter what gender the hole is on!" So, basically I'm shocked and caught way off guard by this reaction and justification. Someone please explain to me how a man on the DL can justify his actions and say he's not gay because men and women have butt holes so it doesn't make him gay.
EDIT: Can some of you read? Clearly you can't! This man is having unprotected and unsafe sex with men, unbeknownst to his wife! Did I say I cared about a gay person? NOOOOO! I said I was shocked that he could classify himself as being heterosexual when he is clearly either bisexual or gay! Make sure you understand the question first!
And number two, this was a once only conversation, so I'm not butting into his life or judging him! I'm just unaware so I want to know!
Frogman.....what the hell are you talking about!
8 Answers
- KamoHLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
There is no explanation, he doesn't want to admit to himself that he's attracted to both. It challenges his masculinity and his very deep seated sense of who he is and where he belongs in society.
I'd keep away from this man and keep your relationship strictly professional, he sounds like a dangerous person.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Fortunately for you, this is neither your fault or your problem. I think a lot of us who did NOT spend time in the farm, in prison or military or prep school start into everyday life a bit naive about how "nice" we all are. You can still be grateful for your own values, and who you are.
The guy's in the closet holding the door shut.
- 1 decade ago
Don't push it, he clearly has issues. You want him to have a mental breakdown after being forced to admit he really is gay? He has a problem with the idea but he's doing it... do you know what doublethink means? Yeah, that's that.
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- 1 decade ago
he's obviously "bisexual"..& he doesn't want to discuss it with you & he doesn't have to its his personal life..i have dated many women & men & have been sexually involved with both genders & i do not classify myself as "gay or bisexual" i fell inlove with the person not their gender.
although it is wrong to cheat but you have no idea what goes on with him & his wife..he may be trapped in an unhappy marriage..so stop being so shocked over this..let him live his life the way he wishes..without your judgment.
- Françoise HLv 41 decade ago
Some people do not think you are gay if you could not feel romantic feelings for someone of the same sex and I would agree.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I think it's his business how he identifies. Don't press him on this, it is none of your concern. In all probability he will sort it out in his own mind when he catches up with his physical reaction mentally.
