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Is it ever OK for a girlfriend to talk about how handsome and BIG her last boyfriend was. I didn't ask?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    not ok

  • mea
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Its definitely not ok. You have to show your disapproval. Its not acceptable cause it shows she's still a bit sprung on him, and doesn't seem to care much about your feelings.

    Sheesh if I were you, id be very pissed and id warn her not to mention it again or she will lose you. lay down the rules early on, and nobody will get hurt. Be open and communicate about what you CAN and CANNOT accept. The more you do this with the girls you re with, the more respect they will have for you. They will have two option, they either start respecting you more or they will walk away.

  • 1 decade ago

    No. That is horrible and demeaning to you. She may be trying to make you jealous or something, but that is just wrong. If you had asked her it might be different, but even then she shouldn't be making him sound so great. If she's with you, she should act like she wants to be. You should tell her that you don't like that she does this, and tell her how it makes you feel. Hopefully she is big enough to realize the mistake she has made.

    Good luck....

  • 1 decade ago

    Hell no its not ok. Why bring that kind of crap up anyway? It is irrelavant to your relationship to her. She sounds like she runs her mouth about stuff like this. It does nothing but make you insecure. Dump her and find someone who is more caring and appreciative of your feelings.

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  • 1 decade ago

    If you didnt ask, than no its not ok. My boyfriend asked me cuz he wanted to rate himself I guess. (I dont understand it!) But that is not information she should be telling you, esp since its her ex. Would she want to hear about your exs boobs or anything? I bet she wouldnt!!

  • 1 decade ago

    to her girl friends maybe. but if she brought it up to her man, wow, thats really dumb and RUDE! you should never ever do that, especially if you still wanna be with the man youre currently with!

    Source(s): common sense
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If her last boyfriend was me you better get used to it. I tend to leave my mark.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    nooo, do you really want her going on about her ex boyfriend thats just not right sorry, if she talks about it again say i dont feel right with you talking about your ex :\ you would rather her talk about you. :)

    Source(s): brainmeee:)
  • 1 decade ago

    if you're her new bf I would tell her that was not ok in a cool tone,

    or you could tell her that your ex gf gave you a better oral

  • 1 decade ago

    Thats not fair to her current bf

    Mine??

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArkVj...

  • 1 decade ago

    uhhh NOOOO!

    of course not! would you ever talk

    about how beautiful your last girlfriend was,

    i don't think so. (well you'd hope not)

    ask her why she keeps bringing him up.

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