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HM
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HM asked in HealthMen's Health · 1 decade ago

I feel like a failure.?

I'm 19 and I have no job, I'm not in college,I can't afford to pay my car insurance so I don't have my own car, and I've never had a date,kiss,hickey,sex ANYTHING! I feel so worthless. I want advice from people my own age,who have accomplished at least one of these things. I want to make my life so good I can brag about it.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Do something. Do anything. Try something new and don't be discouraged. Work is tough to get these days, but if you can grab a job anywhere, do so. Even if you hate it, 6 months (or 2 weeks) down the line, when you quit, you'll know that's not what you want to be doing with your life. Take some initiative an grab on to some experience (even volunteer if you can afford it). Also, new experiences = new people and new people = potential dates.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well then get off your butt and DO something! You seem like you have an idea of what you want to be doing. So stop smoking so much pot or drinking so much beer and make a change. I mean what the heck do you want someone to say? No one here is going to feel sorry for you. Instead of going out and getting a job or enrolling in college you are sitting around complaining to yahoo answers.

    Its no wonder you can't get any action from the women, you're a loser! What kind of women wants to fool around with a broke, uneducated, inexperienced wreck, and not only that she would have to drive herself to come and see YOU.

    I'm not trying to be too hard but for christ sake man, you feel like a loser because you are one. Now get off you butt and go make something of yourself.

  • 1 decade ago

    i dont know if you are female or male.anyway.heres reality. i am a 19 female. i can tell you this much. ages 8-13 i felt like the uglyest worthless piece of crap.throughout that time i was depressed n ****, wanting to be the girl who walks in the room slowmotion stautus n who everyone wants to be friends with.so then by the time i was 14 i tryed weed alcohol and put on makeup.by 16 i tryed crystal meth and started partying. making friends became a piece of cake.i was in with the "cool crowd". so then by the age of 17 i had 4 overdoses i had ****** random dudes and ended up in rehad after 4 overdoses.by the time i came out i was 18 and half a year had gone by being locked in a place where u are alone. i am now nineteen like i said and i can tell you straight up that being patient is not always so easy but do things for you. not for anyone else.when you do things for you u cant go wrong there. who cares about what people think. in the long run no one is going to be there.only the ones who trully care for you. best advice i can give you is to get out there try*getting a job.*enrolling in school.*get a hoby that will include you to meeting new people.*etc. when you do things in life that you like you will meet people who like to do what you like. for example. if you like working out go to the gym and you might meet someone who likes to do just that. or maybe if you like rock climbing go and youll meet people who like to do the same. **** you gotta get up and do something. the best way to meet people is to try and look your best, have eyecontact and talk to people. quit being shy and isolated. there is always someone out there for someone.oh yeah and keep this in mind"you are who you are when no one is looking"theres my thought.hope it helps. _peace.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well if fell your life is a failure have some **** go out do whatever be like fu*k it im going to get me some hoes like that and don't be shy have fun and try to fix things financially

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  • 1 decade ago

    oh i am so sorry. go to a bar. be free and wild. just have fun and keep your legs open. go up to someone on the street and kiss them. you need adventure. live life to the fullest. and shut up

  • 1 decade ago

    go back to school. get a job. get a gf.

  • 1 decade ago

    kill yourself. your parents failed to raise you as a productive member of society.

    Source(s): life experience
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