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HELP! Is it my boyfriend or me? I don't know what to think!!?
I am wanting to know-Is it my boyfriend that has a problem? Is the problem w/ me or something he needs to handle? Or is this a problem at all??
-He has a couple hundred pictures on his iPhone of pretty girls & porn (random girls) Of course he says he likes thick women-but they are all Skinny (of course)
-He looks at porn daily & pictures of women
-On Twitter he follows hundreds of (random) women he doesn't know-Porn stars/ models/ prostitutes/ sluts/ etc (you get the idea)-mostly I think for the raunchy pics they post
**HELP!** Is he a horn dog, sex addict, raunchy, a pervert, normal (I doubt that), OR is he very much NOT attracted to me & seeking stimulation of a beautiful/sexy/ attractive/ slutty woman?? OR what opinion do you have?
Background: Together for 6 years & I'm currently pregnant w/ our 2nd child....
3 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
The fact that you are pregnant makes it apparent that he is sleeping with you, so I believe there is nothing to worry about in regards to him not being attracted to you.
Watching porn daily is on the normal side of guy behavior, but the rest of it is a little more extreme. He may have some kind of extreme libido or be a sex addict. I would advise increasing the amount of sex that he and you have and see if his behavior changes. If it doesn't, then he probably is seeking some sort of stimulation from "more attractive" women (but from that background, it's not likely he'll seek physical stimulation): eye candy, if you will.
It is not a matter of him not being attracted to you, by the sounds of it, but wanting more.
- 1 decade ago
Your boyfriend has a major problem. He is addicted to porn. Some people say exposure to porn is a healthy way to increase your sex drive or for guys to have fun. But it's not. It's immoral, perverse, harmful, addictive, and it causes guilt & shame (if not to the guy, then definitely to his gf/wife!). People who get into porn often get into other questionable habits as well.
You are NOT the problem. His attraction to you, or lack thereof, has no bearing on this problem. It is a sickness, and according to the info you gave, it sounds like he might be a bit of a stalker too! First off, tell him how humiliating it is for you to see him hunting down sexy pictures like that. Describe to him how it makes you feel (i.e. compare it to telling all of his friends about what your sex life is like in GREAT detail). Secondly, suggest he see a counselor or get professional help to be set free from this addiction. After all, you don't want your 2 children following in his footsteps do you?
Best of luck!