How Do You Get Over This "Crushed Heartbreak"?

If you really love him then keep trying to make this work. Don't stop talking to him and keep him interested. If you truly love him and he truly loves you then you will both find a way to meet with each other one day.

Long distance relationships are too hard, dont ever get involved..

How can you say you love him when he lives so far away especially if you've never met this guy.

Why does everyone rush into relationships and think they must have them NOW or else they'll be heart broken there's nothing wrong with just staying friends with them. Otherwise if you meet a nice guy who lives nearby then go for it, otherwise dont even bother with the ones who live that away. one day you'll find the right guy.

From personal experience, long distance relationships don't really work. You might find that you feel better if you let it go and move on. I know that's not the answer you were wanting, but that is what I have learned. It will definitely hurt, but the only way to get over the heartache is time.

This would be why long distance relationships dont work.

If you want be with him in Oregon and he cant be with you in New Mexico then why toture yourself.

And besides that how can you love someone you cant see, that isnt possible.

You should relly end things now before you feel even worse.

My best advice would be to find someone you can be in a relationship with that lives in New Mexico.

this is something you need to do yourself. I dont think what your doing is healthy in any way because there is no future there... if its meant to be it will happen. I always have my guard up and i dont let people that are just not worth it play with my feelings. In reality he can be saying the exact same things to millions of other girls and you will never know ...so dont stress it and go with the flow ...watch your feelings and if you wanna be with him go ahead but always have in the back of your mind that he is far

well this is a tough 1 but if you love him fight for it. but i don't think living with a broken heart is healthy sometimes txting and talking on the phone aren't enough maybe you to should try and work something out alittle less long distance!... i hope you figure it out

You can not "get over" that feeling it gets less with time and then one day you realize you don't think about it as much then at all i am not saying it will be over night but it will be easier with time just keep livin your life every day be brave live

This is really hard. I have this problem now actually. See if you both can make arrangements to see each other and if it works, goo, and if not then dump him. There is always another guy out there for you.

Well i'm getting the vibe that you two have never met in which case this is just wierd. good luck with that

how do you love him and you've only texted him and called him?

long distance relationships never work out