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how much time before ask a girl to marry you?
i ben dating this girl for 3 month now and she is a single mom and i love her so much how much time should i wait before i ask her to marry me i am 32 and she is 30
9 Answers
- 1 decade ago
3 months is still VERY VERY early. You've barely had time to completly know her, her good things and bad things. And you've probably never argued or got into fights which is very important to have even before getting married, you wouldn't want to start arguing after getting married because then u don't know how she reacts to things and you'll just find youself in a mess.
my mother always told this: Before marrrying someone you have to be able to not only list down 10 things that u like about them but also 10 of their not that good qualities and be able to accept those.
thats when u know that you're ready to get married
- 1 decade ago
When you are both sincerly 100% sure that you're in love and want to spend the rest of your lives together.
To be honest I think 3 months is rushing it. You may run into problems in the future and get yourself into a divorce if you get married too soon!
I'd say wait at least a year, but thats just my opinion :)
- 1 decade ago
whoa whoa three months you need way longer then that
wait like at least a year
u might still be in that love at the beginning of the relationship
wait a little longer, then see if that feeling is still there ;)
but this also depends on how long you have known each other
- ?Lv 45 years ago
there is not any set time. you ought to attend till you recognize the guy via and for the duration of. There ought to be no suprises after the marriage (problems with their family individuals, issues you under no circumstances knew approximately them, etc). so a techniques as age, one desires to bypass out and stay thier existence till now getting married. Marriage does no longer mean one "settles" and not do something anymore. yet, the two women and adult adult males could desire to journey existence sufficient so as that regardless of if ones' better half is surprising, one does not determine sooner or later they opt to leave through fact there are issues that still could desire to chuffed in ones' existence.
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- 1 decade ago
its not about the time. Its about the relationship. I dont believe in "rushing into things" because we all only have one life to live. My mother married three times to her friends for fun lol go figure. But if you are ready to be committed then go for it. If you cant handle being with one woman for the rest of your life dont put her up for your problems. My bf of 20 months proposed to me in sept. and i found his other chick on monday. =/
- Cunning LinguistLv 41 decade ago
After 6 months, ask her to move in with you. After a year, TALK to her about marriage. Ask her if she wants to get married, could she see herself settling down with you, etc. Then ask her.
- 1 decade ago
if your so in love, then you shouldnt be worrying about marriage. 3 months is too soon, if you seriousley love her youll still be with her in a year or two when you deffinitly know you wannt to settle down
Source(s): im a wise 15 yr old! - 1 decade ago
i'd wait atleast a 9 months to a year, you don't want to seem like you're rushing things....if you love her now chances are you'll love her than!! :)
- 1-(800)-AWE-SOMELv 41 decade ago
Personally...I would wait 21 more months...but that might just be me....a good 2 years of dating is important!
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