Help i need strong advice from the older experience people?

don't take them to fancy places tell them that your bmw is actuallys your dad's that way they won't think that you have money ,don't look for the hotte's girls hint:Most likely there the gold diggers the hottess girls will always try to put you down because they think they can get anybody in the world that's my advice from my husband he is 25 years old.

Do not advertise your wealth. Keep it on the down low. It's so easy for me to spot a fake woman but I am a woman and have had a lot of friendships with FAKE women. There are really manipulative people out there so you'll have to be careful. Girls that are obsessed with how other people perceive them are more likely to be fake. They go through life trying to one-up everyone, always going for the next best thing which also includes men. These things are ingrained in some people and usually their whole family is like that.

Signs to watch out for:

1. College girls majoring in worthless degrees who only really care about partying. They're actually only in college to party and find a successful guy to marry.

2. Girls from upper middle class families. The upper middle class are the snobbiest. They care far too much about what other people think and want to maintain their "wealth." Really rich people don't give a rats a** what the commoners think of them and the other classes are less judgmental.

3. Girls who are constantly getting their hair and nails done and are always tanning. They are probably living beyond their means and want to maintain such a lifestyle, preferably by having a guy pay for it.

4. Strippers

5. Other girls at work that make less than you.

It is wrong to say that gold diggers pick people. It is actually the other way round. People picks the gold diggers. The gold diggers will definitely try their best to make better deals for their lives. But, why do people falls for the temptations thrown by the gold diggers?

For example, say a person has diabetes and he has been warned to refrain from eating sweets. If he walks into a confectionary and eats some, whose fault is that? the confectionary or the man?

It seems to me that you are impatient to get a g/f. This impatience is a perfect recipe for do6, with or without gold diggers.

Best wishes for a happy life.

the only thing I can say is date them for a while, before ever giving them money or even letting them know that you have money. That's what I hate about money and women. My husband comes from a Very Wealthy family, but I don't care. I love him for him. But I guess there has always been and will always be women that care about one thing. Iknow you probably want a woman that has a little bit of high maintance, so that you know she takes care of herself, but if she shows warning signs, like, going to the mall every weekend, or always wearing new shoes or a new outfit everytime you turn around. A woman that just has to have the best of everything, like the newest cars, electronics, etc. Now I'm not saying that just because a woman wants something new once in a while is a warning sign, just when they want it ALL the time. I don't know what else to say except try and get to know them as much as possible until you give them the "I'm fairly wealthy" newsletter. Good Luck, I feel for you.

You want a decent girl?

Forget the bars and parties, clubs and strip joints then.Get in church.You'll meet an all together better class of women there son.The United Pentecostal churches are good.

Next do not flash your money around, be humble.I am glad you are doing so well at such a young age.Always be grateful and thank the LORD for what you have.It won't hurt to pray and ask the LORD to send you the right woman either.I waited 15 yrs on the LORD for my wife.She was worth the wait too!

i think that first you should know them very well an do not give them any gifts for like three months or so , than when you give your first gift to the girl you will see her reaction and notice if she is frequently asking you to buy her stuff she is really using you .the way she is going to do it would acting like a sweet heart ,very nice,and inocent.so be careful and make sure that you dont meet a girl in the club because does never change their ways of acting and always wantin to be clubing.trust me..

Pick them up in an old crappy car, and don't tell them anything about your condo or what you/family does for a living.

I dated a girl for an entire winter. I only stayed at her house, and only picked her up in a 95 saturn. When the snow melted I showed up in my Audi TT one afternoon. She was surprised, and i knew that wasn't the reason she was dating me.

Don't try to find a girl friend at a bar. Start going to church and find a nice one there.

I don't think you need to worry. Your arrogance should keep them away. "Birds of a feather flock together"