The real reason men cheat is....?

Ok first, I hate that saying. he wants to have his cake and eat it too?? .. like really who's the dumb *** that made it up. Comparing woman to a dessert? Of course I want to eat the cake what am I going to do stare at it?

Second, favors all the same? No, for one there's just something arousing about doing something you probably shouldn't and risking getting caught. Weird I know. But this makes it a different 'flavor'. . The way a woman moves and what she brings to it overall.. like maybe more passion and sexy in her kiss/touch or maybe even someone could want the opposite of that.. something about sweet girls? Idk but again different 'flavor'..... and I totally agree with the guy who said it can be due to more than just the two and maybe even more than reasons a person.. I don't support it but it life.

While there are varied reasons for infidelity the most common reason men cheat is insecurity. Winning over a new conquest makes them feel powerful, successful.. men all too often feel deep down that they are not good enough or strong enough.. these are feelings men themselves don't quite understand or even acknowledge.. all they know is that they feel better when they prove to themselves that they "still have what it takes"

Men are weak.. real good men overcome this weakness and choose marriage with monogamy.

It isn't just for sex! Many married men feel bored and lonely in their marriages. A lot stay married because it's cheaper than divorce. Some stay for the sake of their children. I think it's up to the mistress to set boundaries about what she is or isn't willing to accept within the relationship because without her all that man would have is the wife he isn't in love with and he'd soon be feeling lonely and bored all over again. She brings stability to him because for as long as she stays with him he doesn't have to go on line or to clubs and bars trying to find someone who will make him feel happy and alive again. It isn't just for sex; it's for admiration, someone making you feel special; long kisses goodbye at the door that your wife stopped giving you a long time ago, or perhaps never gave you. These men should leave their wives. Instead they go from woman to woman until their wives finally catch them (for the second or third time) an cut the free.

He's the father of your child so if he is smart then he will respect the fact that intercourse causes you discomfort. Many women have this issue so don't feel ashamed about it. Why does he think you're messing around with someone else? Because you don't want to have intercourse? Then tell him that it causes you pain. ....If he STILL doesn't believe you that it hurts then ask him if he would like a summer sausage shoved up his butt and see if it hurts. I bet that will shut him up quick. Best of luck :)

Some men cheat when they are unhappy in their relationship.

My husband had an affair after one year of trying endlessly to repair our marriage.

He was under appreciated, felt undesired and I became so emotionally detached I didn't realize the extent things got to.

There are different reasons for every men, but women fail to realize that men can be sensitive creatures as well. Not all are slime & sleaze, and IMO women are a lot worse.

I doubt you will see the light on this, usually women ignorant to the subject will never understand.

Men have a natural urge to "spread their seed"... It goes back to the basic natural way of life how it has been for a looooong time.

I know our brains have developed more but the key word is natural.

For some men, it is an urge that can not be resisted - other men can but they sure do think about it.

It is the same for women but not on such a high level.

Both sides cheat. If they don't actually do it, they think about it but they can't help it.

I think men cheat because something is missing in their relationship. And if they are weak then they make that mistake. I won't say that it is a cheating trap because men should be responsible for their actions. Men should not cheat and should leave their relationships first.

they get tired of the woman not acting the same way before they got married... women get all stuck up like they don't need to do anything any more to keep their man happy at home, all of a sudden she has one hundred and one excuses of why this and why that and maybe she shouldn't have babies if she can't juggle life and keep her husband happy. I'm not supporting cheating either.

there's a million reasons why (mostly lack of morals and respect in the cheater and the cheaty IMO) but i think there are women out there that are just as bad as our dirty rotten scoundrels we call men.

i hate cheating and would never ever cheat- been hurt to many times to do it to someone else. the guilt would eat me alive.

by what you say

each woman comes with her own flavor?

Variety or not = all women taste the same

except for the emotion connections between the two parties...

that leads them to have sexual intercourse behind their lovers backs.