I hate tongue kissing but my bf likes it. What should I do?

tell him about it. Tell him you don't like it and/or aren't ready for it. See if you can find a way of doing it that you both like. That way you can both be happy. It's nothing to really worry about. I've known a few friends with similar issues like this and when they just told their bf, everything was fine and got better. Eventually, thy all found a way of doing it that they liked. Just tell him, he is your boy friend after all, if you can't talk to him, who can you talk to? you know?

Hope I helped!

Goodluck! =D

_Don

I agree with you completely and I'm a guy. I can't stand it when I girl tries to ram her tongue down my throat and all around my mouth. That's too much and I don't consider it a sensuous experience. People who kiss like that have no sense of refinement and subtlety. I actually LIKE a little bit of tongue action, but it should be brief and light, and especially it should be a surprise. I don't want to kiss her and know that I'm going to get loads of tongue each and every time.

It might be a bad sign - my last g/f was crazy about frenching and she sort of stopped doing it for me, and I think it was one of many signs that we were not an ideal match. God, when we starting dating she was the worst kisser ever...

Different strokes...

A french kiss, really isn't the best first kiss, what you wanted would be more appropriate for the first kiss. Just tell him that yo don't really like him using his tongue when he kisses you, if he is worth your time, he'll understand, if he throws a fit or argues, do you really think he's right for you and that his mind is in the right place?

You sound kind of young and so this guy probably is too. Once guys get a little more experience they can sense what a woman wants. I would kiss him the way you want to be kissed. If it gets too bad just joke around and ask him how your throat tastes. Then explain that it isn't a race but more like a dance.

I thought it was gross at first too, until I found someone I really liked. Maybe you're just not attracted to him enough and you're too young yet to like it. You'll just have to tell him that you don't like it and you want to kiss without tongue.

im 12 and i love tounge kissing but every one is different you should tell him that you dont like it and hope he will understand good luck:)