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What if she was 6 years older than you?

Ok i met this girl which is totally the girl of my dreams with the same personality i always wanted, smile, laugh, look, and everything but the problem is she's a foreigner and she traveled to her country already but we talk via email. Another problem that i really have a crush on her but i don't know if she even likes me or not? And she's 6 years older than me which is to me i never cared about the age but to her i don't know.

Help plz.

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    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
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    The age difference means nothing. Look at it this way. She's six years older than you. When you're 50 she'll still be six years older than you. And it won't mean a thing then.

    As far as wondering how she feels about you, take your time. Unless she has given you this unmistakable invitation to write a passionate e-mail, your best bet would be to start by hinting at your feelings without being too obvious about it. You're (sorta) interested in her. You like her (LIKE) and you enjoyed her company. You like her sense of humor (especially if she laughs at your jokes). Etc etc etc.

    It's possible to convey interest without making it seem like you've plastered your walls with her pictures, you've saved every piece of paper she's ever written on, and you wrote down in your diary every word she ever uttered. One type of approach is an invitation to keep in touch with the hope that something will develop. The other has her hiring bodyguards ("He won't leave me alone, officer!") Play it cool and see what happens.

    You said one thing that leaves me having hope for you: "Another problem that i really have a crush on her ...." I'm so weary of the soap opera comments of "Oh we're in LOVE!" that seem to infest these postings. At least you understand there's a difference between infatuation and affection. As long as you can keep doing that, you have a good chance of working something out, one way or another with her.

    Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    i like someone who's 8 years older then me.

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