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Please help i really really need to know how to get this girl back:(?
i want her to change her mind about having a different boyfriend that she only just met and to come back to me cos she loves me
Okay, so me and my ex were going out for two years, but we broke up over a massive fight and didn't talk for a few months. Back in October she rang me crying, saying that she missed me and wanted us to be friends. Everything was going great, we were closer than before and we both agreed that we would try again after she was finished with her current boyfriend, as we both admitted we still loved each other. Then, last Wednesday i went to see her up at her place. Her parents were out and it seemed as if she was flirting with me. We went up to her room and she jumped on top of me. We started "fooling around" and next thing we were kissing and doing other things. When we finished up, i asked her if she felt guilty. She looked at me, smiled, and said no. We've been talking about it ever since and she still doesn't feel guilty. I keep trying to tell her that her not feeling bad or guilty obviously meant something but she thinks differently. I'm meeting up with her tomorrow up at her place again, so can anyone please give me tips on what i can say to make her change her mind? I adore this girl to pieces, i feel as if shes my other half. Please help!
4 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Stop pressuring her.
Be yourself.
This next part may seem a bit rough, but If she's cheating on her current boyfriend, then she will likely cheat on you as well.
One must put aside his emotions sometimes and look at the big picture, I mean you do realise that she is stringing both you and another man a long right? How do you feel knowing that your the #2 man in her life? If she truly loved you she wouldn't be dating another man and squeezing you in when he's not around. The odds are she's fooling around with him as well. Beyond that it is highly likely she's a compulsive liar, I mean do you think she's telling her current boyfriend that she's seeing you and fooling around with you?
Summary, do yourself a favor and move on she will most definatly hurt you again.What about the other guy? What if he loves her too? How would you feel if you started dating this girl and found out she was sleeping .. "fooling" around with a nother guy? What would you do? What will you do if her current boyfriend finds out and wants to kick your ***? or maybe kill you? Have you considered any of these things? or is it just about what you want and what makes you feel good?It's obvious to me that this girl cares about noo one but herself as her actions speak louder than her words.
Sorry... but I feel bad for you.
Best Regards
and as always God Bless.
- I. Love. You. <3Lv 41 decade ago
Hmm... your question is confusing, why do u want her 2 change her mind? She likes you and you like her! Unless I just read this wrong, but I dont know why you posted this.
- 1 decade ago
if she doesnt feel guilty, she probably doesnt like this other guy too much, idk if you canmake her change her mind or not, if you love her id try to get back with her, not just physicaly, get her to dump the guy shes with and get back with you
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Say to her 'I Love You' might work like.
