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Have you ever been used?

How did you deal with it?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I think everyone has been used to some extent in there life whether they know it or not. You just learn and try to be less naive next time around.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I was used for 5 years by my ex girlfriend, she had me support her and her medical condition, buying her pills and taking care of her all the time, but she would sleep around and pathologically lie about it, convincing herself it never happened.

    When I finally lost my job in the recession, she left me for some slob with a better job.

    She never worked the entire relationship, but now she has a job as a waitress, and still demands I pay for her medical bills that I started to pay for her back when we were together.

    Well...I deal with it with a lot of rum, and sometimes I write a suicide letter.

    I usually feel better in the morning after I throw up.

    Source(s): Liiiiiiife suuuuucks
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yeah. People pretend to be me and my sister's friends so they can get to my older brother. He's supposedly very attractive. Haha. I feel weird by saying this, since he's my brother, but he is pretty cute. :P Football player, party boy, the usual.

    My sister invited two girls to spend the night at our house one time, and one of the girls told the other that the only reason why she would 'ever' spend the night at our house was to check my brother out. I thought that was really rude.

    My sister's a really nice girl, but her group of friends tend to exclude her, talk about her behind her back, and use her to get to my brother. We even invited some of them to our lakehouse, and all they did was trash the place and gossip about my sister secretly. So you know what I did? I took four tampons, dipped them in ketchup, salsa, cranberry juice, and fish oil (for the smell) and threw each one into their perfect little white, Abercrombie/Juicy Couture purses. It made me SO happy! Mwhahahaha.

    I'm gonna stop rambling now. :P

  • 1 decade ago

    Yep since I was 6 years old and how I deal confuses a lot of people probly.

    I deal with it with bein goofy, silly, irreverent, suggestive, subtle, sometimes naughty, and have P&S that helps me.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sadly yes.

    He took my love, all my money, cheated and then left me like he never cared at all.

    I got therapy and now it's my turn. He wants me back but I'm well over it, so much so the $3000 he spent on a ring to get me back was returned.

    Always remember what they did to you, and never allow another to go there again, you deserve better, and your heart isn't to be toyed with.

    Chin up, it gets easier.

  • Lucky
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    sure we all get used at some point in our life some more than others, everyone deals with it in their own way, I don't trust poeple much any more because of it

  • bet
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    All the time because I'm just too soft hearted. Most of mine is from my family though.

  • ǝﻉz
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    i've been used, and unfortunately i've also used.

    i deal with it by putting it in the back of my mind til it disappears and learning from my mistakes.

  • 1 decade ago

    I get used everyday in 1 way or another. I think we all have.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes

    just look at yourself in the mirror

    think about everything your worth and

    everything the other person lost

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