who says seeing your ex again doesnt heal you and make you move on?

I asked this question a few weeks ago that I wanted to see my ex again after many months of no physical contact. I said i thought if i could see him at least once, then I would move on and heal.

Honestly, I couldnt stop thinking about him since we went apart, it was like a weird feeling going on inside me. I couldnt date other guys seriously cause my ex kept cropping up.

However we got back in contact and we saw each other last week, and It was amazing..I actually healed. I told myself that he might not actually be what I want for life. maybe i didnt love him like i thought i did. Maybe the sudden break-up contributed to the fact that I thought he was the one meant for me.

Isnt it funny that someone you cannot get out of your mind for every second of everyday could suddenly be a different person.

I dont know why im saying all these, but Im just saying it to give other girls/guys hope and chances. you think you are not over your ex. maybe its because they broke up with you or you two suddenly drifted apart, and they were gone! Then you thought you would die.

You can do what i did as well. contact them, see them, have dinner, drinks or whatever. While you re looking at them, ask yourself sincerely and honestly if you do actually truly love them? Or if it was only infatuation or just your own thoughts of what you think they are.

They may not be all that.

I am very ready to face the near year and future with happiness and boldness. I felt so restricted all these while, and Im glad I made the right choice to contact him and catch up. It feels like a heavy burden is off me.

we still saw each other twice after that. Guess what? It was his decision. he treated me like a princess and was really nice. I plan to remain his really good friend.

goodluck to everyone, and thanks