is he just using me for sex?

i met this man on monday on my way to work he was working in my area for a week bt then he was going back to darby where he lives. its only a hours drive from birmingham tho so this isnt a problem.. anyway he gave me his number and i txted him myn and he asked me if i would come meet him on the wesnday.

he came into my work place tuesday to confirm we see each other the next day and i asked him what he'd planned.. and he sed wacth a film... all i would say is and knowing he'd want more and he made a joke say err and alittle sex and then laughed and sed dont worry babes.

wensday we went bck to his place lisened to some music and he tried to make a move....

i told him ima virgin and that ive never really had a boyfriend before and i wasnt really ready and we talked about it. he told me alot about dont let anybody make u do anythin and he wont and he doesnt need to becuase he can get another girl but the short version is that he 'has needs' and he couldnt control himself so he drove me home.

he say's he wants to see me again and keep in contact because he does really like me and he see me next week but i dont know if hes only saying that so he can try again and hope i give in... which 2bh i would as i really like him and dont wanna lose him. he also said even thought he not a guy who likes taking girls virginity he likes the fact that he knows i'll be faithful and that im wifey (serouis gf) material

ive been reading up about having sex on the first date and alot of aduts dont see it as a bad thing and hes alot older than me so i really dont know.

i tried to start a mini convo with my mom about how she knew she was ready but she wasn't intrested in talking to me about it which is why im asking this so before people start saying im a silly little girl i just dont know where to turn... i dont have any extened family just me mom and 2 little borthers both under 5yrs old

hes 24 and im 17 UK so its legal