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Tatyh asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

Fake friends or normal friends?

I thought I had friends but when I started dating someone good looking, all of a sudden, they became extremely jealous and always wanted to "meet him". I wouldn't let them and they started accusing him of being homosexual. These are educated, well to do women here who go to Ivy league schools, have wealthy boyfriends, etc. etc. I get the feeling they're ready to stab me in the back and sleep with any man who I am in love with. Am I paranoid or do you think that there are a lot of women out there nowadays who have no boundaries anymore? Thus, not worthy of being friends with.

Update:

He looks like Jude Law/Sting and I think my "friends" called him gay because I said he likes to spend money even if he doesn't have it. (Not that it's a gay stereotype, but they don't know anything about him outside of the way he looks and that little fact).

I'm not with this guy anymore, there's always women clawing at him, it was just depressing that even friends couldn't be respectful and keep their boundaries. One even told me to give him her e-mail address!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I definately see why you're concerned, and I would be cautios - however I really think before you classify them as "fake friends" let them meet him if the havent already. If they have been calling him homosexual, that is not a good sign, but I think it would be worth a one-shot chance, you know? Good luck :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ok first of all, do you have any reason to not trust your friends? Have they stolen your boyfriend before? Or are you just paranoid? Just because they want to meet him doesn't necessarily mean that they want to sleep with him. They're probably saying he's homosexual because it seems like you have something to hide by not letting them meet him.

    Furthermore, if this man is worth anything at all, he won't sleep with your friends anyway. If you honestly think that these girls would do this to you, what better way to put ALL of them to the test? Introduce them. If the girls try to sleep with him, then you know for sure they're fake; likewise, if they don't, then you know you're overreacting. If your boyfriend sleeps with them then you know he's a cheater and if he doesn't then you know he's worth your time.

  • 5 years ago

    functionality enjoying is a factor all individuals do. some greater, some much less. i would not call it a situation, except you certainly began to get verbal and enable those "human beings" impression your judgements and strikes. I do it each and every of the time with texting. unwell create a message, and then unwell use my suggestions to foretell how they'll react and respond. Plus, this could be an exceptionally consumer-friendly factor for lonely human beings so dont be too worried. wish this facilitates.

  • 1 decade ago

    You may be right; you may be wrong.

    However, I always go with my gut. If I were having weird feelings about dudes being overly anxious to meet my girl, I wouldn't let it happen. Seriously, trust your instincts. You have them for a reason.

    I get a weird feeling just from reading what you wrote but I'm not there to judge.

    TRUST YOUR GUT!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Girl there not worthy of being your friends. Why would they accuse him of being gay?? True friends wouldnt do that to you. Before you get stabbed avoid the knife. Get new respectable friends.

  • I CALL FAKE! [ur frenz of course]

    i mean come on now! its ur privacy, if u dnt feel comfortable with them meeting him then its ur choice NOT theirs. . . .and besides what does this have to do with him being gay? [not that im suggesting that he is but. . . . .]

    i think that they r trying to put you down because you refused them the chance of meeting him, my advice: get new friends preferably some people of the REAL and GENUINE category

  • Amy D
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    These days you cant trust many people at all and the best thing to do no matter what is always go with your gut feelings no matter what its all most always right in any situation.

  • If you feel a little iffy on your 'normal friend', then in my opinion, that is not correct.

    You should be able to trust your friends, without any worry!

    I'd suggest talking to them, and if they just argue and be immature, hey, just drop them.

    You will meet many more.

    Just be careful who you trust.

  • icez
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Well if he's right for you do you think he in turn will sleep with them?

  • 1 decade ago

    FAKE, I repeat FAKE friendz. Wat kind of friendz turn their back on u just cauz u have a cute guy? That's just stupid.

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