Should you warn a random girl if her clothes are see through?

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Over the Thanksgiving holiday, I was driving down the interstate to go to my parent house. Its a lengthy drive, and I got off an exit around noon and stopped at McDonalds for lunch. I went inside to order. It wasn't very busy at all, and there was only 1 family inside and they were ordering. It was a mom, dad, and their 2 daughters. One looked about 14 or 15 and the other one was like 10.

Both the girls were wearing pajama tops and bottoms, and I was standing back a little ways to give them privacy since there was room and so I could look at the menu to decide what I wanted to order. Thats when the 14 year old girl spread her legs about 3 or 4 tile lengths apart (I guess the tiles were 1ft by 1ft), and leaned over to rest her forearms on the counter. When she did this though, it stretched her pajama pants tight and they became very see through, and it also became extremely obvious she was not wearing any underwear.

I'm 100% certain she had no idea she was putting herself on display like that. I wanted to tap her on the shoulder and very quietly tell her what she was doing. I probably would have if it had just been her and her sister and the parents had stayed in the car. What I was actually worried about was the dad hitting me or calling the cops on me for sexual harassment or something.

So I'm asking the guys, would you have told her? And girls, if you were in that situation, would you want some random guy to tell you about it?

j · Accepted Answer

It would not have been proper for you to mention it to the girl herself.  But you definitely should have pointed it out to one of her parents (while OBVIOUSLY looking away).  For the record - I'm not quite sure why the parents would let girls of that age out in public in pajamas in the first place.

Jake No Chat · Answer

I would have let it slide.  No need telling anyone.  It likely would have been an embarrassment or an unfriendly resulting encounter.  No one was getting hurt, and it was likely to just be one of those things.  There may have been some good intentions to mention it to someone, but the possible risks far outweigh anything good that may have achieved.  Had you known them, I would have given another answer.  Anyway, Merry Christmas to you and hopefully she will be getting some flannel PJ's for a present

Bent Snowman · Answer

Indeed, the 14 year old girl was not being exhibitionistic.

Do not tell the girl though.  Have you ever talked to a 14 year old girl before?  They can be vicious, awkward, and ridiculous.  Especially if you tell them something like that.

Tell her mother.

Anonymous · Answer

me being a girl i would ask the MOTHER if you could have a chat for second say ; i dont mean to say this in a pervey way but your duaghter was standing with her legs apart and her pjs where see through i just wanted to tell you becouse sum one els might say it to her and enbaris her

Anonymous · Answer

i know if i was that girl  I wouldn't want some random guy telling me he could see through my clothes. I think you made the right decision by letting her be. Maybe her mom or sister or something would notice and tell her.

Steph68 · Answer

I wouldn't say anything. You're going to look like a perv admitting that you saw her girl parts so just walk away.

tooodleslso · Answer

Any girl I know who is not slutty would definately like to be told. Seriously, either she'll say OH CRAP! and run back home, or go "I know. *rawr*"  lol, so yeah, you should tell.

Anonymous · Answer

Well man, I'd just keep looking. But actually, everyone would appreciate a tip like "hey there young lady, you clothes are see through, no problem though, you're hot".

LOLOL. Seriously, you should tell them. :)

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