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Do you think it is possible after 11 years together he is bored and thinks he can get someone better?
My husband has pretty much told me I wasn't the perfect wife and doesn't want to be married to me but yet hasn't filed a divorce or anything and we still live in the same house sleep in the same bed together and do things as a family. Just no sex or emotions. He introduces me as his wife and talks to friends and family like everything is ok at home. He told me because of me and my girls and our tender caring hearts that taught him to love, heput his guard down and then his family walked all over him. He says that is why he has to be a dick to me. But yet his mother and sisters changed there numbers on him and called him months later for money. he gave it to his mom and tells her he loves her but I care for him and she kept abandoning him when he was a child. what did I do so wrong. Do you think he is having a mid life crisis or something
6 Answers
- olderbutwiserLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
He truly could be going through a mid-life crisis, or he is really confused right now. Be patient with him, continue to love him, and he will eventually come around!
- 1 decade ago
Possibly a mid life crisis i believe he as contemplated on his own life and is not that happy of his own achievements in life.
His mother and sisters are not helping the situation at all. However that is no excuse to be taking it out on you. Its obvious he takes you and the family life for granted and does fail to realize that having a family is a big achievement.
People really have a wake up call when there about loose something or they have lost it. In order for you husband to realize this he needs to be on his own for a while.Or things could get much worst His behavior could spiral where he leaves you for another women.
You need also to be thinking about you and what affect this has on your children. Life is to short for you to spend it with someone that does not make you happy and does not appreciate you as you appreciate him . Time apart could help this situation.Or seek counseling
- Zee-sterLv 71 decade ago
I think if I were in your situation I would insist that my husband get into couples counseling and work on saving our marriage or I would file for divorce. It takes more than 1 person loving and being invested in the marriage. His family may not have been greatest but at some point he's gotta become a man who decides how he's gonna live his life. In any case that drama is not yours to solve. Stay focused on the marriage & his withdrawal from it. Good luck.
- ?Lv 51 decade ago
yes i think he's having a mid life crisis but i got to say this question must be answer by a real people how can help this man not by some one how think they can help.look i know when to stop and see the light and this is one of them because you are miss around with some one main and that's why you have people how know what to do.now that's my advice to you.your friend fred
Source(s): there is some thing big time wrong here.my advice is take him to see a doctor because there is going to be some thing big happing and if i was you i would not be there ok.so becareful ok. - Anonymous1 decade ago
I agree with the first answer. After 11 years, maybe he's forgotten just how good you are. Let him go and let him fall flat on his face. When he comes home with his tail between his legs, make sure you've done the self-work and have moved on entirely.
