How do I gain closure?

tell him everything then kill him. and you will feel loads better

You need to move on already.

It's been enough time to heel wounds. Ask yourself, are you never going to have another bf again? Are you forever going to sit around mourning this relationship? Will you be 85 ears old, alone, and dreaming of him and if he's alive? The answer to all of these should be NO!!

So that said, get on with your future now instead of later. Some great guy is out there waiting for you while you're stuck in the past. Wait too long and your future bf will be grabbed by some slut!

You probably know deep down why it ended. No matter what other reasons you try to find will not change the fact that contributed to your break up. If he broke up with you with no reason fo doing so, it was his issue not yours. You probably felt more for him than he did you. That is not your fault nor could you change his feelings. I know it really hurts, but you just have to accept it. That may take alot of time maybe even years. I know how you feel. My first love dumped me after 2.5 years many years ago. It took a very long time to get over it, but i did. That doesn't mean I will forget, he will always hold a place in my heart as the first love. It will get better in time. Keep yourself busy in the meantime. God bless you.

He's moved on, you should to. Accept it. The relationship ended. Case closed. I just went through the same bs. He ended it over text without giving me any real reason except some lame excuse that I was jealous of him and his ex which was not true. Anything I ever said to him about her was because he gave me reason, for example, talking to her on the phone and telling her he loved her while he was with me. So I dont know what happened with you, but that's what happened to me. I would not contact him. Like I said I dont know what happened with you two, but at least give each other space. Hope you are okay.

threat is he will by no potential make an apology. It sounds like he doesnt care and you will by no potential receive the honour and clarification which you deserve. that's existence. I dont reccommend revenge, it in basic terms makes issues worse. I strongly dont reccommend leaping into yet another courting in view that's obvious which you're nevertheless hung up on the previous one. that's considerable so which you would be able to experience happy youself, and content cloth till now you supplies that to somebody else. i'm not sure your age yet I reccommend preserving your self busy, call a pal, decide for a stroll, sign in for a classification or take a trip. Do some thing for your self, and be sure you're happy. I even have been in this occasion in the previous, I by no potential gained an apology or clarification.. and regrettably I dont think of you will. it is going to truly, quite harm, yet as time is going on it's going to be greater advantageous and the main serious component to do is to place your self first. basically verify you're happy and comprehend that there is somebody accessible which will handle you with the honour and dignity which you deserve, basically dont rush into something. you in basic terms get to stay as quickly as, so make on a daily basis count selection, and dont waste a while on somebody who isnt going to handle you the way you should be dealt with. perfect of success.

Just remember how you use to talk to him and just talk to him that way. If you can't talk to him now that means that you didn't talk very much when you were dating. Well the point I am trying to make is that it has been three months and you can't let go. So you need to just walk up to him and ask him what happened to cause you to break up. Then learn from what happened and don't let the same thing happen in another relationship. Good luck.

five months is long but not that long. i've dealt through this with my ex who i have dated for nearly 3 years. the best way is to accept the fact that it's over, that he/you made this choice. Loose the contact with this guy and hang out with your friends and family. Keep yourself active with the old hobbies or develope new ones.

If he couldn't tell you why he isn't "feeling this relationship anymore" then he isn't worth you're time. Honestly, you seem young and you have time to date better guys. Good luck!

this happened to me a couple of years ago. i got over my ex by having a sex change operation and extensive plastic surgery. now i feel LOADS better and i am the HOTTEST chick in town!

Don't worry about talkin to him. Just move on. If you have his number, IM, or email DELETE IT!!!! Out of site out of mind. Get yourself a clean slate

you need to sit down with him over coffee, and you need to listen to him and HEAR what he is saying. Do not let your emotions run wild, do not let your lust take over. Just ask him and listen to the answer. do not int eruptt him do not throw your points and issues into the conversation. you are not there to argue you are there to listen.

explain why while using witty sarcasm and humor or just try and move on and date someone else

or date some one to make him jealious