High School Girl Problems.?

Oh god. I'm in high school too, and really, is this what happens around? I don't know where I've been, but my friends, we don't talk this way. Seriously, if Bob doesn't like Mary, she got an issue. I know girls, I'm a girl too. We got this hating thing going now, but maybe Bob felt bad after calling you a bitchy hoe--even if she didn't......You and your 2 friends need to talk. Don't go behind each other's back and let the other talk smack and blah blah blah blah. That's where things go wrong.

You sound like a very nice girl. You should talk with Bob and tell her to stop talking smack about Mary because now Mary finds out, she might feel like she can't trust you. And when you go and try to tell her the truth, Bob gets mad and thinks you're talking smack too. So really, talk with Bob.

If she's a true friend, stay with her.

Ok hun, your relationship with your friends sounds major complicated.

Firstly, I think Bob and Mary need to be more honest with each other. Bitching about one another behind the others' back does no good. If they're your friends you should try encourage them to sort it out. If they can't and really don't like one another, they should say nothing, not make horrible comments.

Secondly, I don't know exactly what Bob's texts to Mary said but if she really did call you a "bitchy hoe" then she doesn't really sound like a very good friend! In that case, I think you are better off without her. But as you mentioned, she said she was only talking about Mary. It's for you to decide if she is lying or not. You saw the text, you know what it said.

It seems to me that this fight is mainly between Bob and Mary. I recommend you stay out of it. If you really want to, remain friends with both of them. You don't have to choose between them! Or another option is finding someone else to hang out with. You could probably find some better friends who would treat you better.

I hope I haven't sounded too harsh here and that my advice helps you.

Good luck.

True friends are suppose to complement each other in character,not call each other bitchy hoes and talk about each other. A friend does not gossip about a friend and a friend would not listen to gossip about a friend. Sounds like the 3 of you need to call time out and talk about what each of you is looking for in a friend. Then set some ground rules as to what each of you will not tolerate in your friendship. Whosoever breaks the rule is out and will no longer be considered a friend.

Bob sounds Extremely sometimey and i personally cant stand that ive been in a situation like this and i think she talks bout u to other friends i would stop being friends with her

True friends are supose to compliment each other, not call each other bitches or hoes or bitchy hoes. Just leave her. But...if she is TRULY TRULY sorry and your not ready to trow away your friendship, then see if you can find it in your heart to forgive her. But if she says she won't do it again and she goes and dose it again...you know what you gotta do. But realy, REAL friends don't call each other names. But if you still wanna be friends with her then it's your choise. Try and patch things if you you wanna :D.

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