why doesnt he make contact?

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if you like a girl would you ring and txt her? this boy i like and say likes me NEVER rings or texts me... if i text him he will blank it but if i ring he will talk to me and he keeps saying he wants 2 come see me and tries to make conversation on the phone... im really confused i dont know what hes thinking or what he wants. we live in diffrent towns so i cant just go visit him

Could be happier · Accepted Answer

Yes, so confusing eh! Because he makes out he's so pleased to hear from you, then you worry about him etc.,  Yes, I'm like that.  Be careful, you do it too much & he may get nasty- unless he is cool.  But it's this sort of behaviour from us women that make us easy targets for abuse!
Because we're saying, we still want them even though they're being disrespectful.  He then gets meaner, knowing you'll put up with it, because you are always putting up with everything.

It's so hard for you to let go & you think you love him.  Because yr addicted to him & this behaviour is a trap for you.  Like a spider caught in a web.  To free yourself, tricky but best to tell yourself, you are acting like a child who wants a toy, can't have it & you won't give up on it.  You think if you keep on enough eventually you'll get your own way.  But this time, no, time to be kind to yourself & contact those other people you've been ignoring.  Tell them you need some support right now, lots of love and attention.  Ask them to help find you an interesting playmate!!!

Please give it a go b4 it is too late!!

sigsall · Answer

Many guys are terrible when it come to making contact with girls they like. However it sounds like there's a chance he might not like you seeming he doesn't seem to be making any effort at all until it comes down to you ringing him.
Why not just tell him that you like him? I mean, what have you got to lose? And if it turns out he doesn't like you, well then, move on and start afresh for the new year!
Hope you're well. Wishing you all the best for 2010.

cwceroberts · Answer

Sorry but he's just not that into you. Men are notorious cowards about telling awkward truths. Men also go after what they want and if he was really interested nothing would stop him contacting you. Chin up hon  the world is full of other men who would  LOVE the chance  to be your BF

T · Answer

It sounds like he doesn't like you. If you are the one who always contacts him then he is not interested and is just being nice and doesn't want to just tell you to leave him alone.

Respect Is What It Is · Answer

I would love to help but i don't know how to in this situation. You need to call him and ask him about this weirdness..

~Jesus Loves YOU!

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