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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

My friend sorta hates me... What should I do?

So I was frustrated with my friend because she kept ignoring me and being like a jerk to me. So I sorta gave myself space so I wouldn't flip out at her. Like a week later, I told her what was up, and that I didn't tell her sooner because I needed space, which she knew, but claims she didn't. She now says I'm an awful friend and a *****. What should I do? Like I'm not saying I want to be best friends or anything, but I'd like itnif she stopped hating me.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Right. Let's get this straight... She said you were an awful friend and a *****. Why would you still want to be friends with her? If I were you I wouldn't go in any deeper to find out why. That could easily make it worse. Just leave her alone and hang out with your other friends. It's her problem, not yours.

  • Hi Emily,

    I can understand what situation you are in!! Instead of talking with her or trying to do it you can take up some time.. Give her time to realise what mistake she is doing.. Obviously wen she feels it she will automatically come to u and say a word called "SORRY".. That is a word which would make to forget the bad things happened in past.. Try it..

    Hope you get back soon!!

    Thanks & Regards,

    Srinivasan C

  • the problem here is that she is trying to get out of the friendship betwen u 2 sadly becuase she obviouvlsy has newer friends best thing to do is not notice her much say hi occasionally but don't ring her,text her, email her try stay away from her and find better and newer friends who actually appreciate and respect you shouldn't be treated like this, i felt exactly the same with my old bestie but i tried moving on cuz i knew she wasn't worth my time :)

    Good luck Hun,

    blessings <3

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You were the mature one in the situation for backing away before anything was taken too far. If she cant understand that, that's not your fault in any means possible. You explained your point of veiw and reasoned with her by giving her space to for you both to cool down. Give her time - she may come around. If she doesnt, she is immature and she doesnt deserve you.

  • 1 decade ago

    (sigh) if she says she hates you and calls you a ***** then your friend doesnt sorta hate you, somebody you know does hate you. get over it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ask her how u not bein a best frend...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    we have to ask

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