How many wife here is tired of their husband?

Many questions and actually you and your wife are the only ones to be able to answer them. As in bad habits... My hubby has a thousand, cant even count how many times I sat down without the toilet ring at night, me trying not to make light so he can sleep. He takes off his clothes wherever and those clothes stay there until I pick them up. I could go on and on. The truth is, I have bad habbits too. But you know what? We dont dwell on our bad habbits there is much more in life than a open toothpaste. He comes home from night shift and cooks me breakfast. He is a great Dad, he is my best friend and even that he is just like most guys and he doesnt like to talk about feelings, he gets over himself and puts my needs first.

The growing apart part is normal, but the trick is to still find connections. What did you guys like to do when you were younger? How did you wow her? Are you still courting her?

Although quite frankly, if she is over with your relationship, no matter what you do, it will only annoy her.

My husband is almost 53 and didnt grow up and I like it, he makes me laugh. As I said the only one with the right answer is the 2 of you. Talk talk talk, seek counceling, just try everything.

This is the only thing Jean- Luc has ever said that I agree with. I'm tired of some issues with my husband but I hold out hope that they will become less serious, and that I will be able to accept his problems. He's adjusting to a mental illness. It was absolutely unbearable, but it's getting better.

You might find it really hard to get a job, so I would be sure that I had prepared myself for the work force before I did anything drastic about getting a divorce

your english makes my eyes bleed.

women have a nasty habit of blaming everything on the man. and most divorces are caused by cheating, whether the other spouse knows about it or not

On a side note, your English succeeds, because I could understand what you are saying. My eyes are not bleeding, but my heart does for you somewhat because I can definitely see the pain and desperation in your words! As to your question, here's the key, in my humble opinion: Everyone gets tired of too much of anyone. Secondly, love is a choice. Adult love between married spouses in NOT "unconditional" either. Think of all the vows people say before getting married - these are conditions. Looking at this question and the others you have posted, I am fairly convinced your spouse is merely your security blanket - not someone you choose to love, but rather, someone you feel you NEED for your own existence. I think this is a great time for you to grow. Do a 180 degree turn from her and don't look back. You will either grow immensely and find something much better, or she might just come chasing after you! Then, it would be your choice to allow her in.

I replaced my husband for $39.95 plus tax.

a long time ago....

yes, your english make my eyes bleed also. ditto