13.... future sex problem?

If you know you have a weakness in this area, then it will help if you can avoid letting yourself get into situations where the person you're dating is likely to ask you for sex.

You do realize that the reason not to have sex at such a young is is NOT because your parents will be upset, but because you're not quite ready to handle all the consequences of a sexual relationship, right? In short, you'd be getting in way over your head. Your parents are only trying to protect you. Guys your age are responding to their over-active hormones, not out of love for you. They will selfishly say and do things to make you feel foolish for not giving in to their demands.

BE STRONG, GIRL! Stand your ground because your future is at stake!

Who sells condoms to 13 year olds... well they are both underage, but its not illegal. Just its waaay too young. I would get your friend to convince her friend it's a really bad idea, they are too young, and don't know enough. If that doesn't work. explain that this will give her an image of being a slut, and no 13 year old should have to take that kind of title on.

For starters, you are way to young to even be dating, much less having sex. That is why you don't know how to assert yourself in an adult behavior situation. That is why little girls like you shouldn't go out with boys [with or without parental permission]. So lose the boyfriend, and find something else to do that doesn't involve boys and sex games. Talk to your parents about how to handle this kind of situation. Good parents want to prepare their kids on how to conduct themselves on dates well ahead of time.

When you are old enough to learn how to tell boys "NO!" [like you MEAN it] when they pressure you to have sex with them, then you can date. You have a lot of life to experience before you need to make that choice with anyone.

U may love ur bf but u've gotta love urself first, girl!U're just 13...and u cant afford to get into problems of unwanted pregnancy or some sexually transmitted diseases.U may think ur bf is wonderful and sex is divine but if u stop looking at it with rose tinted glasses u'll realise ur bf is just another guy looking for adventure and experience and sex at this age is never gonna feel like what u'd feel when u're older and more ready for it. So say NO and remain firm for your sake and that of ur family.U owe that to them for their love and trust.

You can control yourself, just say no. If you think that is a problem, stop dating for 3 more years unless it is in a group (which is what you should be doing anyway).

Only YOU have the power to control what you do or don't do.You can do what everyone else wants and expects of you or you can do what you want to do.If what you want to do is give in,then that's what you'll do. .But don't go puttin' no guilt trip on us cuz we couldn't say the right thing to make you stop.

So are you still a virgin? You're not really clear.

Btw... I know it is hard to control your body for the yearn of feeling someone you like but make sure you ask yourself this question:

What is my BF looking for?

What am I looking for in this relationship?

If your BF are rushing you to do things you are not ready for, they are not genuinely not into you. They just want to have sex with you.

One thing I must admit, when I was with my first BF, I thought I loved him but when I honestly ask myself what attracted me to him, I just wanted the experience of being intimate with someone.

i would suggest staying single until you are 16 i know it might sound hard. i bet im sounding really boring, im only 15 myself and want to get out there with boys. im not saying u cant have boys as friends just no more than friends until your at a appropiate age. just concentrate on your exams. i ain't a geek or anything i have friends male friends of course who have actually asked me for sex and have tried it on with me but just don't fall for it boys brake your heart trust me. u might only be in year 7 or 8 just stick with your girl-friends.

hope i helped:)

You need to get birth control! Talk to your school counselor and find out where you can get some birth control. You are not a little girl! You are now a young woman. A young woman with feelings and needs.

Just play with your barbie dolls.