I really like this guy, but he broke my friend's heart?

well if he broke your friends heart hes not good enough for you set your standards for someone who's not a jerk. Good luck!.

What kind of friend would you be if you started dating the same person that broke your friend's heart? That is really shallow and you'd be wasting a friendship on a boy that doesn't even really sound worth it. I have a rule to never date anyone that my friends have already dated. That's just off-limits. I'm just so confused as to why you'd want to date someone who was "really mean" to your friend. How selfish can you be?

If that's how he treated your friend, then perhaps it's a sign of how he'll behave when things turn sour. Any guy who you truly deserve would have the balls to suck up the past and be decent to your friends. He clearly can't get past the fact that you're friends with her.

Bottom line: don't date him. You've seen both sides of his personality, and the bad side is ugly.

you know what, we kinda having a lil similar dilemma :)

yet the thing is, i don't know if i really like the guy who is the boyfriend of my former bestfriend ...

our heart is really unexplainable when it start beating outrageously... anyway, getting back on to the real matter... you have the problem, of liking a mean guy who had just broken up on your friends heart? what do you think, does he deserve your admiration, or not???

if i were in your shoe, i think the best way to do is, to let go of the feeling i have for the guy since he had been once my friend property as you say, and you have even said that he was mean to her but when it comes to you he is so nicer. haven't you think that she is just pretending or making a lil jam in your heart??? i don't know, but i think, i must not intrude to them. i've got my own business, we does... there are lots of boys anywhere , anyway..

hope, you'll make the right choice girl :p

Girl Code, stick by your friend! dont go after a guy that has been an asshole to her! What if you hook up with him, it goes into a relationship, she will feel betrayed by you so that friendship might come to an end, he then might start being an asshole to you, you guys will break up and he will break your heart and you will have no one to fall back on because your friend will be gone and most of your other friends will have gone with her because they wont want to be friends with someone who isnt loyal (you). Stick to the Girl Code and put your sister before your mister!

Forget about asking him out, just try to be friends. That way if he likes you he can sk you out. Also talk to your friend about it, it may be awkward but you don't want to loose her as a friend because of a guy.

Hope I helped xx

if he could be an ****** to your friend, he could also one day treat you the same way.

you'd wanna like a guy who's nice to EVERYONE, not just you...

if he acts bad to your friend he's probbaly gonna do the same for u..

Your friend would be jealous (I think) and then you wouldnt be friends anymore.

So its your choice.. Risk your friendship just for some boy?

u gota get dwn in da geto nd get drty or he wnt notis so b nise big dadde

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