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Am I too jealous of her?

First off, I don't want to sound like a whiny teenager without a life (I'm not). With that being said, my boyfriend/ future husband and I are both juniors at the same university (in different majors). The majority of his classmates are female, which is fine with me. He studies with them a lot, and talks about them several times a week. (I do things with them, too, so I do know most of them) This one girl is beautiful, sweet and funny... in fact, if she wasn't a completely different religion and didn't have a boyfriend, I would be worried. Anyway, for Christmas he made her a coffee table for her apartment and she gave him a really nice sweater! I didn't hear that any of the others gave or received gifts. He and I haven't exchanged gifts yet merely because we haven't had the opportunity. This is our first Christmas officially together so I didn't know what to get him, hence her's will be much nicer than mine.

Is it silly of me to be so jealous of her? I know how he feels about me and that he wants to get married after we graduate. but he made her a coffee table?? we didn't spend much money on our birthday presents this past year, so it surprised me when he told me his "project" was for her. I guess I'm just nervous that he won't like my gift. Is this a valid reason for feeling this way?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I don't know about this one, I consider myself so not the jeolous type, but I would not be real happy about him spending his time on making her something. Although he is telling you about it, and doesn't seem to be hiding anything. If you plan on being married, then you should be able to tell him your confussion and see how it goes befour the wedding. good luck, wish i new how it was going to end.

    Source(s): experience
  • 1 decade ago

    Dude, its just a table.

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