How Important Is Your Virginity?

I think significant prior experience with everything-but would make it less likely to become attached inappropriately to your first, since he most likely wouldn't give you the first orgasm you've experienced with someone else.

However, I wouldn't do it unless he's honestly interested in making the experience pleasurable for you, and not just adding a "safety seal" notch on his bedpost.

And speaking of safety, use a condom. No ifs, ands or buts.

Best of luck!

Virginity is not a big deal. It doesn't have any use and it doesn't matter if you have it or not. But you aren't old to be a virgin, I'm 18 and I lost mine about a month ago. There's nothing wrong with you as a woman, you aren't inadequate or anything. You've got this guy who obviously wants to have sex with you, it's not like you couldn't lose your virginity if you really wanted to. The more important part is do you really like him? Forget about being a virgin, if you weren't worried about that, would you really want to be with this guy? He doesn't sound like he respects you a lot, and you don't seem to think that much of him. You're flattered by his attention, but if you were feeling a bit more confident about how attractive you are, would you go for him?

I suggest you wait until you find a guy who actually wants a relationship. Not because he's more worthy of taking your virginity or anything, but because some guy sleeping with you and abandoning you is upsetting no matter how experienced you are.