I need some advice on pregnancy from a males perspective as well as females?

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A few weeks ago I had sex with this guy. He is a very good friend of mine and we were talking but we stopped talking as much after having sex because I would always wait for him to initiate the conversation. Well now I am a few days late and am having some pregnancy symptoms. We used a condom and everything. Well now I don't know what to do. I am worried because he has recently started dating a new girl and now I am regretting the decision to wait for him to talk to me and do not know if I should tell him I might be pregnant.

I was thinking of telling him but I really wanted to wait to find out for sure. I was going to take the test in the next few days to know for sure. If I am I want to tell him because I know it would be wrong not to and also I would like to tell him I might be but I don't want him to stress out. 

So these are my questions:

Should I tell him I might be pregnant or should I wait until I know for sure?

If you were the guy, would you want to know you were having a child or that the girl you slept with might be pregnant?

I am really confused right now and have a massive flood of emotions going on inside of me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.

Orpheus Think Tank Repairman · Accepted Answer

Well, from a Man's prospective, Yes we would like to know if we have made a difference in your life... and your lack of interest in us... not saying anything... not being there when we want or need you... well this is why we move on... but by all means, tell us that you might be with child, even though it more than likely has to do with worry than with pregnancy.

People say Men do not talk with Women... and yet are you not expecting him to read your mind here? Tell him how you feel and stop being afraid to seem aggressive about it!!!!!!! Grab him and tell him you are not finished with him yet.


ME!


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Teen mommy of 2 · Answer

You should let him know. Just call or text him and just say "Hey I thought you may want to know I might be pregnant by you, I'm going to test in a few days to find out for sure. When I find out if I am or not I'll let you just encase we have to figure some things out. I'll talk to you in a few days." You'd be being honest and truthful. Best wishes and good luck

? · Answer

dont say anything until you know for sure you are pregnant look go get a pregnancy test and test first then if you are having 2nd thoughts go see a doctor and then tell him if need be. you may be stressing out but go buy a test 1st

mschan · Answer

Yeah, i understand you are in the state of confusions since you do not know you are pregnant or not. I suggest that you buy pregnancy test and test if you really are pregnant, do it in the morning, ist pee to have a good grasp of accuracy result. then, if you are preggy, tell him you are! and ask him what can he do with you being preggy of his child. since, you are telling us that he is your good friend, just be open to endless possibilities.

? · Answer

wait till you know for sure, us guys would freak to hear we got someone pregnant when its not a sure thing, he might be a jerk and think you're just jealous, and the new girl might get defensive.

Me. · Answer

Wait until you know for sure. No reason to freak him out until you know for sure. 


Besides,he might resent you for telling him without any proof.

Alex S · Answer

(Guy) I don't like suspense and all, but if he's special enough for you to have sex with him, tell him and he needs to be able to handle the suspense/pressure and find out right after you do.

vintage.mermaid · Answer

DEFINITELY wait until you know for sure.

postres20022000 · Answer

Don't tell him unless you are 100% positive........If she is preg, I want to know about it..

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