MJ fans: If Michael Jackson were your dad?

Wow!

This a very interesting question. In all the time that I have been on this site answering MJ questions, I've never come across a question like this. I have to admit that it's actually one of the best!

Well, Michael is 21 years older than I am, and although I do see him in a romantic sexual way, I he know is old enough to have been my dad also. For me personally, I have always had a thing for older men, especially if they are at least 10 to 20 years older than myself, so to me, Michael is PERFECT!

But there has been times when I kinda change my view of him from "girlfriend" to "daughter", just to kinda understand what his real children must feel. I read somewhere that although Mike loved all his children equally, Paris was his little princess- his little trophy daughter. He was crazy nuts about her! I like to imagine that I would be that to him, if I was his daughter too.

To be completely honest with you, I like the fact that I'm old enough to be his "wife" or "girlfriend" and not just his "daughter". I love Mike so much! I see him in so many ways... I see him as a bright shinning star- someone who I am completely proud of and love in a charming, loving way, but also as a hot, delicious, ever-so-sexy man!

I guess you can say the due to the difference in age between us, I'm blessed to have a bit of both fantasies about him. lol

But to answer your question, I think he wis a wonderful father with beautiful fatherly instincts. his children were very fortunate to have had such an amazingly loving father like MJ.

Michael Jackson was the only celebrity who thought about others before putting Himself first. Michael was so misunderstood and innocent that even His own warm heart couldn't make Him feel better. I love Michael for the person He was and the way He viewed life. Michael was more normal than all of us put together because He cared about the things that other people would discard like feeling for others people's loneliness & trying to give others what they need. Michael was the only celebrity who really wanted to help make this world a better place. Michael had a heart of gold and the personality of God. Grew up listening to Michael & will never stop loving Him. Michael lives in my heart now and forever. Miss Him so much it hurts but good things never last forever unfortunately. Love you Michael my Guardian Angel.

No - I wouldn't be IN love with him because if he was your father you would have been brought up so differently. You just would'nt be in love him. You love him now cos hes your idol and beautiful, gorgeous, sexy etc but if he was your dad you would probably still idolise him and possibly think he is beautiful but wouldnt be IN love with him. You would love him like a daughter. Not anything else.

The answer to your question MJ would have been an amazing father. And I love him for that although I don't know if I would want him for a father because then I could'nt/would'nt be "romantically attracted" to him... Lol as you put it....

love becky x

EDIT - Just read Ellen's and that makes so much more sense and I agree with her.

This question is coming off as really messed up. I think you need to re-phrase this. O_o

That being said, I will say this. I look for qualities that my father had in a man, yes. Meaning... his ability to be a great father and husband. He is hands on and can fix anything around the house and could take a car apart and put it back together. Was creative and built furniture when he was bored just because. He could play the guitar and could play a lick just by hearing it and then he could play it.

So in turn, I'd like the man I marry to possess a lot of those qualities. Creativity, stability, caring, and a handyman. LOL I hope that's what you mean. Because I do NOT find my father romantically attractive. That's creepy. It really is. I hope you just phrased your question in a way that it's being misunderstood...

I agree with Ellen, this is really awkwardly worded, hun. No, I wouldn't be 'in love' with him. In love implies romantic love which is certainly not appropriate feelings from a daughter towards a father. Even now, I still insist that I want to find a guy who is just like my dad or who has qualities of my father, because I adore him and I think my father is the most amazing man I know. There's nothing wrong with wanting those qualities in a partner. That's why my parent's marriage has worked for 20 some-odd years. But, I simply don't - can't think of my father in the way that I think you are implying. Even if it was Michael - it would still be 'Dad' and that's just weird. I couldn't be physically attracted to my father, no matter who he is - no way, no how. Qualities or characteristics of his personality and ambitions, yes, but anything beyond that, no way.

I know this might be weird, but I seriously sometimes think of MJ as a father figure to me (because my real dad doesn't support me, and Michael and my dad are the same age), and other times, when I'm not thinking of him as a dad, I think of him in a romantic, lover kind of way (like thousands of others). It depends on the mood I am in about him.

Funny this question would come up. Cause a few days ago I told my friend (whose also an MJ fan) about how sometimes I refer to Michael as my father and sometimes as a lover, and she said "incest much?" and I told her "It's not like that. If Michael was my actual father, I would still think of him as handsome but I wouldn't dare think of him in a romantic way. And if he was my lover, I'd think of him in a romantic way and not a fatherly way. But in reality since he's neither I can imagine whatever I want."

Just thought I'd share that with you. Hope you guys understand. :-/

well it depends. if he had been my father from the very moment i was born, then i would just think of him as an exceptional daddy that i luv. but if he were somehow all of a sudden my dad, it would be really really weird. i cant imagine having a father that i think is ridiculously hot, an incredibly sexy dancer, etc.

OMG I LOVE MJ! It would be past weird for me because i couldnt think of him as being my dad. I too would just love him as a daughter comfort him and never ever ever have him feel alone! Make him happy in each and everyway a daughter could do. R.I.P MJ

LOL, I think I would be a different person if I were his son or daughter, I'd think differently and thus probably not be attracted to him. I would love him though and yes I would also give him lots of hugs.

But I'm sure his children did that to him too.

But honestly, I would much rather him be my HUSBAND! lol.

he was a great father but i'd rather MJ being my best friend forever. in that way, i can comment him about how sexy he looks in that video, outfit, etc without it being awkward lol! can't do that if he was your dad!

<3