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If the guy you date doesn't ask you?

I've been on 3 dates with a guy who supposedly liked me for awhile. I finally discovered recently that I liked him too and it's been growing for awhile in the back of my mind. I noticed he never asks me anything about myself. I've mentioned this more than once. He'll temporarily correct it, then... nothing. He's really comfortable going into detail when I ask him something. He's fine telling me about himself. I talk about myself too, then realize that he didn't ask. Tonight I purposefully didn't talk much, waiting, and waiting... nothing. I don't understand. He seems happy to be dating me. He's even told his friends and our mutual friends. I've heard that he's very pleased. He doesn't have much experience dating or with women and I wonder if he's just excited to have a lady who likes him, rather than ME. He honestly doesn't give a doggone about getting to know ME. What would you do? What do you think? Help.

Update:

One more thing, he's mentioned his Facebook a few times, but hasn't attempted to friend me. That would be the FIRST thing I'd do if I wanted to get to know someone. WTF?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    the only solution to this is to approach him and tell him how you feel.

    all other advice will only be: "oh his not a good guy"

    Don't listen, just tell him that, and listen to what he has to say as an excuse, if it's not good enough, your mature enough to do what you must.

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