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lennon
Lv 6
lennon asked in Social ScienceGender Studies · 1 decade ago

girl,,,, in men's room ?

OK, so I live in the midwest-U.S.

I recently stopped at a gas station/convienence store.. After gassing up my vehicle I went in to

pee and get a soda. Walked back to the restrooms and went in. Noticed a girl standing in the hall

between mens & womens bathrooms. Assumed she was waiting for someone.

There were a couple guys in there washing hands ect. They left and I was alone,standing at the urinal. Someone came in,walked behind me and went in the toilet stall. I finished peeing, washed my hands and was drying them when this person came out of the stall.. It was the girl from the hallway ! About nine or ten years old. She just walked up to the sink to wash like it was no big deal.

So,, what 's up with that ???? Some girls get a thrill out of going into the mens room ? Get a thrill out of seeing a man at a urinal ? I could see, possibly going in there if the womans room was broke or

locked. ---when the mens is empty. BUT, she Knew I was in there. She seen me go in.

She's lucky I'm not a perv. A guy could have easily have grabbed her and dragged her into the stall

So, what do you suppose she was thinking ???

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I think she was probably doing it for the thrill, to be mischievous. Small children are often like that.

    Unfortunately she will probably grow up to think that it is relatively acceptable behaviour, and harbour the double standard that it is not acceptably for men to do the reverse.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I would think that she must have had a valid reason why she would attempt to use the men's restroom knowing that you were still inside. Perhaps, she did not think she could wait any longer. Perhaps she had thought you left with the other guys, there is no way to know for sure unless you had asked her. What I would like to know is, why would you being an adult male think that a 9 or 10 year old would get some thrill out of going into the men's room or seeing a man at a urinal? If I was a man, I would want to bring this situation to the attention of the proprietor and would be more concerned that no one was there to care for this child, and would be speaking about the lack of supervision by her parents or the possible dangers she could have encountered had there been someone who was perverted in there, but I would not be saying things like, "SHE'S LUCKY I'M NOT A PERV". You're the one who should feel lucky that you're not be a perv! =P

  • 4 years ago

    It relies upon on who the adult adult males are and what the problem is. trust it or no longer, maximum locker room communicate has no longer some thing to do with women and is extra about different matters. i understand it is a allow down, notwithstanding that's the reality. in case you ask your self what adult adult males say about women even as women are literally not round, we in simple terms talk about which women we assume of are warm and what type of females we are into. typically we do not continuously agree what women are warm because we've diverse tastes. we've a tendency to be extra blunt about women even as they don't seem round and talk about their actual attributes lets say.

  • 1 decade ago

    She could be a Pro in training.

    She could be mentally deficient.

    She could be a thrill seeker.

    I would not have allowed it to pass without bringing it to the attention of the proprietor as this is a liability for his establishment. Also, you missed the opportunity to admonish her. Sometimes that is all that it takes to correct obtuse behavior. (Worse yet) To not have addressed the issue set you up for anything that she may have wanted to accuse you of...you lucked out

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    This is the automatic sense of entitlement instilled in American women.. even before they ARE women.

    Whenever I see a woman in the men's bathroom I smile and tell her to get the f--k out before I pee on her leg.

    Your story is PROOF that men are not perverts... but women ARE.

    SO PERVERTED to let their 9 year old daughters in the men's bathroom.

    SICK. and TOTALLY IRRESPONSIBLE.

    Next time you see a woman in the men's bathroom.... you tell her to thank you for NOT raping her and to get out before you pee on her leg. That would be funny.

    ---->> But in THIS case I would have taken the 9 year-old girl by the arm and dragged her RIGHT PAST her mother to the nearest Police Officer where I would have left her IN HIS care instead.

    "Here you go Officer. I found this minor in the men's room because her mother was a crappy parent."

    OBVIOUSLY her mother is not doing a good enough job.

  • Teri
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Since there was no legitimate reason for her to use the men's room, then shame on the person who taught her that this is acceptable behavior. She needs to be told that this is not ok and to not do it again. It is disrespectful. She needs to understand boundaries which in this case, she oviously crossed.

    Source(s): a midwest woman's opinion.
  • =)♡
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Was there a reason why she couldn't use the ladies' bathroom? That seems strange.

  • 1 decade ago

    she must be a tiny feminist trying to prove that women can go into men's restroom.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    What do you have to say about little boys in the women's room?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you're lucky this little girl didn't try to set you up and scream rape or something.

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