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Does This Make Me A Jealous Person [SorrySoLong]?

Okay, I have a girlfriend of three months now. I am 17. She's had alot of boyfriends, but only one actually meant something to her, "her first" love. Well I have had 3 Girlfriends actually mean something to me, But the girl i am with now, gives me the best feeling out of them all! But the thing is I dont talk to any of my ex's anymore, every now and then they will pop up and say hi and ask how im doing and then move on. Well My girlfriend talks to her ex boyfriend, not her first love, but her ex. He still "loves her" he texts her almost everyday and they text eachother back and forth, i have told her that i didnt like him for the simple fact that he still loves her and another thing is that when he was texting her one night he told her that "Remember that one night we talked and said that we'd do it behind his back" and ever since that night it scares me and pisses me off when she talks to him. I have seen family situauations go down badly because of jealousy and i dont know that to do anymore. Im scares and irritated, i love her so much but what do i do. What can i do? I dont Wanna end up hurt.

Update:

And we are both Virgins. If i Might Add.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I don't think you are in the wrong at all. She is acting sketchy; even if the other guy wasn't being serious (which she might think) the fact that she is entertaining his "little jokes" is questionable at best. The key thing here is to not lose your head and say something you don't mean. Both her and the other guy's behavior is disrespectful to your relationship, and you should talk to her about how she views the relationship and why you don't like those types of "jokes" or comments. Seriously, though, be careful to keep a level head. I've been in a very similar situation and I said some terrible things that permanently damaged the relationship.

    Source(s): History.
  • 1 decade ago

    ok ur next relationship is always better than ur last and u guys have been going out for only 3 months maybe u fell a little too fast n maybe she is still interested in her ex because it seems like she likes the attention she gets from him and of course u should be jealous but i think u should leave her before she leaves u for him because she could cheat on you n it might hurt u more you know so just try to move on and find someone who is into you not they're ex

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