Need Help with Oral*** ( Mature Only Answer )?

cold spray. numbs your throat, suppresses the gag reflex.

Practice makes perfect? It might sound kind of dirty but it's true. If you're problem is your gag reflex then there's not a whole lot you can do. Some people have a gag reflex and some don't. It's just something you have to learn to live with. You could try practicing but if that doesn't work out then there's just about nothing you can do.

Look at the bright side of things- gagging during oral is like giving your lover a compliment :D

Hi Wendy...

Well your problem isn't really all that "deep" (hehe) learning how to manage your gag reflex can be such a beach beach though - so practice practice practice!

Depending on your man's D, the main thing to do in order to prevent a gag reflex is to avoid stimulating your Uvula (it's that punching bag looking thing in your mouth) - this can be a beach if your man's D is curved (specially upwards) best ones are the kind that actually curves down idk why but it's sexy to me! LOL anyways your throat obviously curves down so in order to accommodate this task you'll simply need to reposition yourself so that the curve actually aligns with your throat.

If he's got a straight stiffer then your pretty much F'd... think circus act "man swallowing a sword" lying with your back with your head at the edge of the bed should do, you'll just have to put up with the heavy t-baggin (hehe)...

If all else fails your best bet is to try an oral gel - you know that ones people use when they have a tooth ache? Take a cotton bud and swipe a decent amount on your uvula allow some time for it to absorb otherwise if you stick a D in there right away you'll be sucking for awhile as it will numb your man's Deez too!

Hope that helps!

Happy CK sucking!♥

I am so excited for your husband! I don't know if I can help you with the actual gag-reflex problem, but I think I have a couple of ideas/personal experiences that could help.

I never wanted to give it, because I was grossed out by it, and the thought of getting that in my mouth--so my poor husband was deprived and had just resigned himself to a life w/o it. But then I started hearing about "playing a different tape in your head", and so I analyzed the thoughts I would have whenever I thought of doing that...and they weren't good. So, I just re-trained my brain for a few weeks, to where I actually liked the idea of it. Then I told my husband that I wanted to begin to practice at getting good at it. He was so excited about the prospects, that he was extremely patient, and thankful for whatever he could get. He has always been very careful to not c** in my mouth, and the more we do it--with me relaxed about his expectations, the more I enjoy it. And the less I have any negative reactions. Which may work the same for you with the gag-reflex. Also, there are certain foods that affect the taste--pineapple, citrussy sweet things...I also have a friend who performs it on her husband with a condom. Bottom line, a man who isn't used to getting it in marriage, will be more than happy to work with his wife on it...and practice makes perfect:)

If he's in deep enough, the shot'll just slide down... you'll hardly feel it.

In order to overcome your gag reflex (and don't forgtet, some women just *can't*), you have to spend quite a bit of time practicing with something close to the size and shape of the penis you're dealing with. It can take weeks and weeks of daily practice to learn how to relax the muscles and ignore the reflex.

It's hard to desensitize the gag reflex. Bulemics are able to do it after much "practice" but I don't recommend that. When husband is ready to let go, I usually slide my mouth back up so my gag doesn't get triggered.

I don't there there is any trick to not gagging except there is a spray made for that. As far as the 2nd part of the question, if it's towards the back of your throat you probably won't taste it.

You may never be able to do that without the gag reflex. Practice a lot.

Better to go shallow as soon as you lnow he is going to pop (after this many years you should be able to tell) then flip your tongue up to keep the spooge out of your throat. Then swallow and keep sucking with lots of tongue-tickle, until he tells you to stop. If you do a good job he will kum a second time.

You can go to the sex store and get oral sex mints that numb your throat or you can even just go to the pharmacy and get something such a Chloreseptic spray since it numbs your throat as well. Hope this helps!! :-)

First, the way you find out how much he wants is to put your fingers in his mouth. He will show you what he wants you to do.

A woman friend told me that. Personally, it doesn't do that much for me anymore, and going deep was never that much of a thrill. the nerves are all in the glans penis.

You have to get your mind off of what you're doing. If you're thinking about it in the back of your throat, you're going to gag. Think about his responses to whatever it is you're doing. I don't know if that helps but it works for me. Sometimes I even count how many strokes it takes for him to... But if I'm thinking about where it is in my mouth, I always gag.