What would you do in my shoes, relation ship wise?

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Well. I'm really confused about my relationship with this girl right now. One day we confessed to each other that we like each other. Things were going good, rather than just going out in groups or seeing each other at school, we started calling each other consistently and talking and one day it just turns awkward. My friends say we make a very good couple and they proceed to talk to me and her to try to get each other to talk to each other, both of us being naturally stubborn people I talk to my friends, they give me a bunch of different opinions.The main influences consists of two of my guy friends, and one girl. My one guy friend, helped me a lot. While the other, who talks to her a lot, gives me confusing information, clouding my judgment, don't get me wrong he's cool, but a little slow. But... that one girl. She was the one who clouded my judgment. She's been my bestfriend for around 2-3 months. And I barely found out know she liked me for all that time. When I asked her about advice she gave me asshole comments. Which adds more to my hate for her. Recently, she's been saying things about having stupid friends and only talk about kpop stars. She said things that weren't true. And which was the cause of everything and the whole misunderstanding
Then we finally talked to each other. Just casual talk nothing serious. Then just a few days ago, she actually brought up the subject of liking her. It seems like it's gone back to full on liking me.
She seems to hint things. Like i'm the only guy who never hugged her. She's half way to putting her arm around mine then pulls back. And when I sit down, she puts her legs on me. Oh by the way i'm 15. Me, i'm not really a flirty type, and sadly this is my first relationship. And I don't know if this counts as a personality type but we're asian. I know that people have different opinions on relationships with younger people and how we aren't as mature but hey, it all helps. I don't know where things would go on from that point.
I have a few questions on what you would do.
1. Confront the girl who gave you the bad advice with either bad comments towards her or try to patch it up.
2. Do you think that she's moving to fast after a misunderstanding with her. Or would you go along with it.
3. What do you think of it.
I know this is all confusing. I can barely understand it either.

Jacob · Accepted Answer

I understand what you are saying, you might want to drop that girl that is your friend, but don't hate her she just likes you and is jealous. Especially if your a popular kid she is very jealous. Go back for that other girl, don't let her go!! I just gave advice to someone else, to a girl with a shy guy she liked, and I'm going to tell you the same thing I told that same girl... GO AFTER THAT PERSON YOU LIKE SO MUCH!!!!!!!!! Unless your better off without that person then don't do that, but were kids this isn't gonna become but so serious. So go ahead I know you want to go for her, and she wants you to go for her, in fact if it isn't too late of a time in the day call her, or text her now and if she says we haven't talked in a while or something tell her one of your friends told you it might be a good idea if you said hi or something. Go for it!!

Anonymous · Answer

dude seriously like wtf? I think I'm a smart person, but after reading that I feel like a complete idiot, because I can't understand ****! From what I did understand: I think you should just try to patch things up with the girl who gave you bad advice, but don;t confront her. If you confront her it will make it worse. And you didn't put enough details as to why it went akward so I can't help you, but goodluck :)

? · Answer

you shouldnt let that girl who has/had a crush on you affect your judgement
(girls are vile towards their rivals)
the last thing u can do now is to crush your friendship with her. just try to reason things out with her and maybe she'll understand. if not, then you're going to have to give it up and wait for her to smarten up
go ahead with your current gf and live life

next thing try not to post a wall of text. summarise it so that people can actually understand and provide good answers

Mary Jr. · Answer

dont ask for tips from any one!!!!
get a little bit creative and let the girl likes u for who u are!

and ur friend......let the time passes,,,,and act with her like what u did before.....she would leave these behavior

Starra · Answer

HEY IM ASAIN! AND FIFTEEN! whoa what a coincidence. ditch her and go out with sumbody else cuz this all seems to long and complicated

Anonymous · Answer

i think that if you really like her than confront her about it.
say "you know what i don't like to play games so the truth is i really like you, if you don't like me than that'sl but i just want to let you know."
she will be soo SO impressed by your confidence tell her how you REALLY feel.
it works.
hope that helped  :)

Anonymous · Answer

ive been redin this der thing for about 2 minutes over and over and i think ive found ur porblem! u need to suck in your stomache more and put on acuple of dem racy utfits and go nude on stickam!

txconserv · Answer

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