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would a man have to pay child support if...?

she used him to get pregnant so she could get a child support check from him?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Yes -- because in such situations, women are allowed to commit legal fraud, and they are never held responsible for their behavior.

    There are women out there who will lie to guys about being on the pill, about having had their tubes tied, about being on diaphragms, and what have you.

    There are even women who will take the used condom out of the waste basket, and put its "liquid contents" in their you-know-what in order to get themselves pregnant.

    And they can do all of this with legal impunity. They can literally get away with fraud. No other type of fraud is allowed under the law -- except reproductive fraud committed by women.

    There are more women out there like this than society wants to admit.

    And then we say that men are the pigs! Pretty pathetic.

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  • 1 decade ago

    It takes 2 things to make a baby.......... 1. Egg 2. Sperm.

    One from female and one from male, that gives a child 2 parents. Two parents that should be supporting it financially and emotionally.

    Now if 1 out of the 2 don't want to follow the obligations that come with a child then that one should do anything and everything to prevent a child from being conceived.

    There are some people, out there that will do anything to try and hang onto someone no matter what the cost. Some males are just as bad as some women out there.

    This guy didn't do everything possible to prevent a child being made, now he has to pay the price financially for the next 18 years and emotionally until the day he dies.

    I am a female that was tricked and used by a male, he wanted me and figured a child would keep us together for a life time. I didn't take every precaution, now I have a beautiful daughter that I support. x0x0xx0

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes, even if she performed oral sex, or used a washed condom, than used a Self Insemination Kit, which is available on the Internet, to impregnate herself. There are no grounds to deny an order for child support including cases where an adult woman had sex with a minor and got pregnant, so he's pretty much out of luck on this one.

    S.F. v. Alabama ex rel. T.M., 23 Fam. L. Rep. (BNA) 1082 (Ala. Civ. App. Nov. 22, 1996); State ex rel. Hermesmann v. Seyer, 252 Kan. 646, 847 P.2d 1273 (1993); Jevning v. Chicos, 499 N.W.2d 515 (Minn. 1993); Mercer County v. Alf M., 155 Misc. 2d 703, 589 N.Y.S.2d 288 (Fam. Ct. 1992).

    So, what he needs to do now is learn what his rights are and what to do to address them, perhaps starting by going for full, joint, or bird nest custody. He needs to join Dads House in Yahoo Groups to learn this.

    http://dads-house.org/

    Here's some resources from there:

    http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids....

    http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Single_Fathers-What_are_...

    http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Paternity_Case-What_to_d...

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    http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Child_custody-_can_fathe...

    http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Bird_Nest_Custody-What_i...

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  • tess
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Yes, if the child is his he will pay plain and simple, the only way he wouldn't have to pay is if she signed an agreement that she didn't want child support from him.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Yes

  • Jade M
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Yes

  • 1 decade ago

    would a man have to pay child support if...? is always yes

    the judge loves ruining men, especially white men's lives

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes if the blood tests prove that it is his child, who cares the motivation behind the creation of it? He was an idiot not to wear a condom wasn't he? He made his bed, regardless, so let him lay in it!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes it is still his offspring. Regardless of how it happened it will still be his child.

    Source(s): I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH MILDRED..CRAWL IN WITH US!
  • 1 decade ago

    Yes. If he didn't want a baby, it's his fault for not using protection too.

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