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When your children come to visit, do they knock or just walk on in the door?

When I visit my dad, I ring the bell, open the door slightly and shout in, 'Dad, it's me!' until he says, come on in. If he doesn't answer right away, I wait until he comes to the door. He always says, I don't have to knock, but I feel I should respect the fact it is his home and his privacy. I wondered how other seniors feel when their children come to visit and just walk in without knocking. I understand if a person is physically unable to answer the door, but I am referring to children that assume it is alright to walk in, just because it is a parents home. The other side of the coin - did you ever have a parent or mother/father in law that would just walk on in to your home without knocking?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Family walks right in. Friends and other guests knock. My home is my children's home and I want them to feel welcome at any time. When I visit my Dad, I walk right in, but I yell to let him know I am there, so as not to scare him.

  • 1 decade ago

    First, my grown children CALL before they visit.

    Second, my door is always locked so NO ONE can just walk in.

    " did you ever have a parent or mother/father in law that would just walk on in to your home without knocking?" - sure way, way back in the day with my grandparents, neighbors and the like...in the 50's!

  • 1 decade ago

    They have to knock or ring the door bell since I keep my doors locked all the time, however, they almost always do not call first to say they are coming. They just don't think that dad/grandpa have a life that he'd mind being dropped in unannounced.

  • Holly
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    They call first by phone to make sure I'm home and they come right in, just as I like it. This is always their home too. If they want something to eat, they help themselves. Anyone who didn't call this place home, however, always knocks and waits for an answer.

    I do appreciate a call before anyone arrives so I can tidy-up a little if need be, and I always warn everyone before I stop by.

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  • winger
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    there is one ingredient you could attempt, in basic terms possibly no longer the right. Get a large, beefy guy, various muscular tissues and inspite of, and look ahead to them to 'knock knock bunk' you or come close on your position back. even as they do, enable the guy run out screaming such issues as 'if i'm getting my fingers on you you're going to hell' or inspite of, scary issues which will scare all and sundry. Then with somewhat of success, situation solved. they are going to run away like the little females they're and could be too scared back. good success! XD

  • Micol
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Like my Mother before me, I made it very clear that once any of them lift my care to be on their own, that they could not move back, that they were on their own. Therefore should they wish to visit, they are to knock or ring the bell and to waite to be let in. Also, they are not free to fetch food or drinks on their own. they are quest in my house. Same for me when I go into their homes.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Knock, wait a beat, then slowly open the door and enter as they call out.

  • 1 decade ago

    The kids usually call & knock but they and few friends have keys. It is stlll a gathering spot but not like years ago. There is always room at the table for friends & family.

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm like you... I knock on the door, then open it and yell that it's me. My mom has limited mobility and I don't want her to have to get up.., just to let me in. On the other hand, I don't want to invade her privacy by just marching in like I own the place.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I live in a small farming village - I am lucky if my neighbours knock on the door before entering. If we want a 'Viagra moment' we have to lock our doors.

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