Do men not *** all the time? Husband chooses porn over me (real sex) for cumming?

Porn is an addiction, just the same as drugs. Its not you, its the addiction. He needs to stop watching porn and stop masturbating in order for your sex life to return to normal. It is a very hard addiction to overcome and like all addictions it can ruin his and your life if not stopped. I would look into it.

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As your sexual honeymoon was after his return from war it would be safe to say his change of attitude is not war related... As you have gone the extra miles for sexual arousement then it would be safe to say his lack of interest does have reasoning... You have two avenues to pursue for answers with one being the possibility of you turning him off and the other being of what could possibly be more enticing to him than you... Turnoffs...? Guys cringe at a little odour down there or anywhere for that matter. If he feels any pain with penetration or oral, he will back off and lose interest. If he himself has sores or feels he may have a virile infection he will lose interest and probably even keep it a secret from you until it goes away... These things do not change his sexual urge, naturally, and so porn and masturbation would be an expected substitute as well as spending more time with his buddies... I would not make an issue of his porn activity any more as he views this as an infringement of his privacy... You appear spying on him in a few ways and this too will boil his water so be less open in your search for infidelity and don't accuse him of anything withour positive proof demanding an explanation... Meanwhile, you both really need to communicate more to find his reasons for his drawback and what can be done about it. If you have no results there then it would seem counseling the next step and that too won't rest well with him. Just curb your jealousy of the tramp and keep her out of conversations you share. Even tho she is a tramp, he probably accepts her as a good friend and will resent anyone cutting her down, even you. This does not mean he is doing her, she is just a friend... You are in a tough spot as everyone here mentions, and the problem is not going to be resolved overnight...just be patient, alert, and continue being the good wife...don't give up on him...K...?

Your husband is weird. He's able to get off by watching cartoons but not in real life? Especially his own wife?

You sure did pick a winner.

Also don't say that you didn't know about this addiction before you got married. That's a real obvious addiction that can't be hidden. You probably thought you can change him lol

LOL next time youre doing it tell him to hold on a second and turn on some porn and act like youre watching it to *** too. see how he likes it. hes obviously attracted to the caricatures in the hentai videos. babyface, huge boobs and no control over their own bodies. pretty lame if u ask me. but i watch porn too and im a chick. but really next time youre doing it, get on top and face away and flip on some porn of a guy going down on a girl or something like that and pretend you need to see it to have an orgasm. see how he reacts, tell him u need it to pop.

he's having fantasies of doing what he sees in the porn... wet kissing or something that oriental women do well, and most American women won't. Getting close to his peak of his sexual life... He is going thru some kinky thoughts.. pay attention to the porn, you'll see what he's desiring. You're not gonna like it, because if he thought you'd like it, he would have asked already

That is definitely not normal, it's not you.

Really, he stops and doesn't finish, because he prefers his hand? If you don't have children, get out now while you still can, honey, because this guy has a major problem.

its not the porn.

after a few years most couples stop trying new stuff and the sex becomes routine. which is why he can *** to porn because there is variety in his hentai or what ever he gets off on. it isnt the same 2 (or 100) ppl he is watching.

That doesn't sound normal maybe he's addicted to it and needs to seek counseling, have you talked to him about it to see whats going on?

He sounds absolutely pathetic! He needs counselling...no, that's not normal.