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Why would an atheists get offended when a Christian says "God Bless" to them?

OK so I just don't get it.

Why would anyone take offence to someone else asking God to bless them?

To that Christian (hopefully), God is the be all and end all in their life, the most important thing, top dawg. To ask God to bless someone is, from the Christian's point of view, the greatest act of love and kindness they can offer to a person, regardless of their beliefs etc.

So why do I encounter atheists who take offence to this? Not only do they just take offence, but I have encounters many who will retaliate with abuse.

I can only offer my thoughts from a Christian standpoint, but I suppose it applies throughout other religions as well.

Looking for input from everyone, theists, agnostics and atheists; presuming its constructive. Hopefully someone can enlighten me!

Thanks

Tom

PS. Oh and God Bless ;-)

Update:

I tried to emphasise that I was talking about a small minority of "atheists", and I'm willing to accept that these people who I've encountered are "confused MALtheists" thinking that they are atheists.

And "Crown Royal", I admit that it would be a tad awkward, but I would accept it and conclude that the person is offering me the greatest act of love that they can think of offering. I certainly wouldn't respond by cursing their beliefs; as some "atheists" have done to me.

Update 2:

Oh and I'm talking about the phrase "God Bless" being used as an alternative to "have a nice day" or "cheerio". I'm not referring to the whole sneezing thing.

Update 3:

CindyComesBack - I understand your point, but I don't think you understand mine.

If that person GENUINELY believed that a flying purple unicorn created the earth etc, and their intention was to show me an act of love by asking this unicorn to bless me, then I wouldn't have a problem.

Surely it is about the other persons intentions, not what they are actually saying? I might not necessarily believe in what they are saying, but the fact that they intend it as an act of kindness towards me should almost oblige me to accept it as one. No?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I wasn't aware that I was offended...

    By the way the tradition of saying "god bless" began hundreds of years ago, and it was said because people believed that when you sneezed you expelled your soul, or some others believed a demon. Saying bless you was a way of protecting the exposed soul, or preventing re-entry of the demon.

    I don't think anyone actually believes that anymore. It's a figure of speech.

    Source(s): agnostic atheist
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    The atheists I know, feel about that the same way a devout Christian would feel if the atheist came up to him and said "Flying Purple Unicorn bless you!"

    Put yourself in those shoes for a minute. Imagine that someone said that to you. How do you feel? Amused? Irritated? Feel like the person who said it to you is a moron or delusional? Do you want to waste any of your time with this person from that moment forward?

    This is how the atheists I know feel when a Christian says God bless you. The words have virtually no effect anyway, so it's basically just an irritating thing Christians say.

    And it's an imposition besides.

    Did that person ASK you to say it?

    And why would you think YOU are so important that at your very words God will automatically squirt out a blessing like some robotron?

    A bit arrogant isnt it?

    And by the way I (as a Jew) feel the same way when a Christian says that to me, because I know that the Christian "god" is a *pagan human sacrifice* named Jesus. I know that this pagan human sacrifice has no capacity to bless anyone, so the Christian saying that is meaningless. But it still feels like Ive been slimed, and dirtied. It's frankly disgusting to me.

    EDIT: No, it is still an imposition. Religion is a very personal matter, and people shouldnt be trying to impose blessings from their various gods onto others without being asked, regardless of their intention.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, it does convey an utter failure to consider the other person's perspective, thus promoting the Christian's world-view above the other's.

    That apart from any possible consideration of the tone in which the expression may be delivered.

    Admittedly "I will pray for you" is a more frequent offender in that class.

    Those are the times I wish I was Wiccan, so I could reply "Thank you, and I will cast a spell for you" so the Christian can experience how it feels from the other side.

    Mostly, however I take it as a harmless bit of social phrasing.

    Not to be understood literally.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    "Why would an atheists get offended when a Christian says "God Bless" to them?"

    1. I don't.

    2. You're projecting.... again.

    3. I say 'bless you' myself; it's a buzz... I like making fun of the unfortunate.

    ~

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I wasn't aware we DID get offended.

    At the risk of sounding like I'm using the "No True Scotsman" fallacy, you might simply be dealing with a confused MALtheist...

  • 1 decade ago

    Some people don't want your god's blessings. Have a nice day and Goddess Bless. I hope you aren't offended by that. If you are oh well too bad.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I don't take offence at it, I look at it as if they were saying something like "Have a good day", and I usually reply, "and you too", but then I'm not as radical as some atheists are.

    PS And you too.

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think I have ever met a person, atheist or otherwise, who would care if you say God bless you to them ...

    Source(s): But I may be sheltered ...
  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I take no offence at all when people say it. I use the term "Bless you" quite often myself.

    Source(s): Atheist
  • 1 decade ago

    I'm not. Next question.

    It might make someone uncomfortable. How would you feel if someone said "May Allah bless you." or "Vishnu be upon you." Wouldn't you feel a little awkward?

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