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Okay, so.... It will be one month on Saturday?

He will have asked me out a month ago (the 6th) but we've never hung out.... one of us has plans, we're snowed in (he lives kinda far away), his mom won't let him. IDK, it's just never worked out. We hold hands and hug at school, and we text a lot. It's supposed to snow/ice a lot this weekend so plans probably won't work, meaning another week that we don't hang out. Anyways, at lunch today my friends were asking me when it will be a month so I told them, and one girl was like "What if he doesn't remember?" I hadn't really thought about it. I don't really care, since it's high school, and it will just be one month. Should I care? If he doesn't bring it up, should I? What should I say? Also, opinions on Valentines Day. Do I get him something?

**This is my first boyfriend, I'm 15 he's 17....I'm a sophomore he's a junior.

Update:

After I posted this, he invited me to a superbowl party at his dad's house. Most likely my first kiss, plus our first date! Any advice, tips, suggestions? K thanks ;)

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Most boys dont remember 1 week/1 month of when they asked you out. Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years and he still can't remember when our anniversary is. We used to only count months when people ask us how long we've been together, but we don't celebrate by month.

    Chances are he's not going to remember or mention it, so don't worry about it, it's not that important. Although, Valentines Day should be exciting for you since he's your first boyfriend. He'll probably get you something for valentines day, especially since you guys are just going out (me and my boyfriend probably wont exchange gifts). Just remember, DON'T SPLURGE! You'll be upset when you've spent about 50 bucks on his gift and all he got you was a hug and a card.

  • 1 decade ago

    you guys should for sure do something for Valentines day! FOR SURE go out on a date!! and i think that if he truly likes you, he should care! u deserve to have a guy remember ur 1 month anniversary and wants to hang out with you all the time! but if you really think u guys really like eachother make sure u hang out soon!!

    o btw with the snow and ice, try livin in minnesota! over 7 inches of snow in a night, -20 F we will still have school and people will still be going places (:

  • 1 decade ago

    well my anniversary is on the 6th too so congrats!!! i remember my 1 month. i had to remind my boyfriend! ha. if he doesnt say something then just send him a cute little message like "happy one month! i cant wait to see you!" i know what its like to be stuck away from eachother and his mom not letting him do anything or go anywhere. but dont let it end your relationship. just enjoy the time you do have together. it will get better. since its only a month into your relationship i say get him something small. like a little something that willl make him remember you and how much you care about him. good luck :)

    Source(s): 10 months ago experience!!!
  • 1 decade ago

    If he doesn't remember your one month I don't think it's that bad to be honest! And with all these snow days etc It doesn't mean he doesn't want to see you! He's probably feeling frustrated as well! As for valentines day why don't you both meet up and do something nice instead of buying stuff?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    nah i dont think you should care about if he will remember a one month anniversary and since it is just high school. or if you do want to say something about it then just bring it up casually, but if he doesnt know it is dont be mad about it. if it does bother you that you guys dont hang out then you need to make plans a while before hand! and yeah you should get him a small something for vday.

    good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    i have the same issue!

    its frustrating i know, my bf lives far from me and we dont go to the same school so its even harder.

    what you should do is go to his house, buy him a v-day gift, (something like chocolates..nothing like a bear that says i love you..i loves you's are a little early in a 1 month relationship) plan out what you wanna do with him..have a snowball fight, or if its too cold outside, bake something cute :) and also dont nagg him by asking him "when are we gunna hang" and stuff, surprise him. you can tell him you have surprise for him on v-day so his plans will be free.

    good luck !!! :)

  • 1 decade ago

    The thing is one months are big to the girls like every month! but to the guys its just another day. They don't understand how we feel or what goes threw our heads. He might remember that's a plus but don't get to worked up over it because he might just think you don't get overly stressed about that. For valentines day girls don't really get guys anything they usually get us something but this year for (Matt) I got him a dog holding a heart and it says I LOVE YOU on it and he loved it. So sometimes is good to get them something.

    Source(s): I'm a teenager
  • 1 decade ago

    One Month Thing: It doesn't matter, it's only been a month! Maybe send him a message like 'Hey it's been a month now! I've had a really fun time, hope we are able to catch up more in the next ones!'

    V-Day: It'd be really cute if you got him something small

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    no you shouldnt make a big deal about this.

    unless you guys are very serious which doesnt seem like it.

    just keep it cool and casualish.

    other wise you could seem clingy,

    but if he brings it up acknowledge it.

    or call him up that day make plans for a dinner at like olive gardens and say "its been a month since we started dating, we should go out to dinner!"

  • 1 decade ago

    Just because he can't get away to see you doesn't mean he doesn't really want to be with you. I'm sure he will remember if he cares, get something but keep the receipt just in case he didn't get you anything.

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