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what are some hints/flirts that girls will give guys that they like him?

I was wondering on hints that some of you girls gives to guys? I know that there is the playful hitting(which many girls tends to say its a way of flirting), but ive had a lot of girls do that to me while we were all just only friends. the reason why im asking is because I am completely clueless when it comes to girls. I do not know if they are trying to play games, flirting, mad, etc..

i'm 23 yr old and I am pretty confident in the way i look, but i cant seem to pick up any of these signs. my friends would often come up to me and tell me "i think she likes you", but i'm like what signs did they just give me?

I would say i am so bad at picking up signs, even a middle schooler would be able to pick up signs better than i do. Part of the reason for that was because I used to be overweight until end of high school. at that time i never had a gf and became very insecure in the way i look. so, i never even bothered to think that a girl liked me. Now, this train of thought is still stuck with me. need serious help!!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    i am a guy but i've had similar experience with what you're saying.

    how good are you at noticing when two people like each other? you're probably not bad at it because it's one of those things that from THE OUTSIDE everyone notices easily. you ever notice when you look off to the side at a guy and a girl who are attracted to each other, they're a little bit closer than most people would be and often she's looking up at him and smiling a lot where her eyes light up? she seems a little bit tense but very happy to be talking to him?

    think about what you observe there and then apply it to while you're talking to girls (i think about it after usually). you might notice that if you imagined you were looking at yourself from the outside, you would think "she likes him" or "they like each other". hope this helps

    Source(s): myself
  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Hinting isn't anything a guy particular enjoys. Sure, it's scary to speak with your love interest, but that's the best plan of action if you truly want him to know you're interested and if you want to know if he is as well. Flirtatious gestures are fine and honestly recommended, but are simply not useful alone. They need to be complimented by more meaningful, concise, and worthy interactions. Preferably, conversation. Try to speak with him. Show genuine interest. You should no in not to long if there is any possibility for a romantic future. If you still can't get an idea, just come out with it. Tell him or ask him candidly. You really don't have anything to lose. Not to mention, a guy finds admiration in a girl that can take charge, be assertive, and really create a dialogue. A guy wants clues, but he isn't constantly looking for them - his life shouldn't be revolving around the cryptic codes of timid affection. Ask him out for coffee. Show him you really care, he'll pay attention then.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes we do tend to do playful hitting. Also when we do really like a guy, we always look at them and can't stop smiling when we are around them and we tend to laugh at everything. And sometime avoid seeing the guy we like cause we are worried we might not think of anything to say. Also we like take the guys stuff or do something to playfully fight with them and we try to make up excuses to talk to them or ask them for help. :D

  • 1 decade ago

    She might laugh at your jokes and find reasons to talk to you or for the two of your to hang out together. She might make a lot of eye contact and blush when you talk to her. She might touch you on the arm when she talks to you. She might play around with you a lot, like jokingly take your stuff so you have to fight her for it or tease you about something. She'll mess with her hair a lot or check herself in a reflective surface when you are together.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I could tell you a lot of things, but I found them all out through google, so it would be easiest for you to just search 'signs she likes you' and pick your article. The Wikis and eHows are good for this.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    They will smile at you and talk to you and joke with you and laugh at your jokes if they are the outgoing type. If they are the shy time, they might stammer and blush and look down and sometimes even run away.

  • 1 decade ago

    if you catch them looking at you 4 no reason

    talk about the stupidest things

    talk about themselves(they want you to tell them how good they look)

    text you first

    ask 4 your help

    get dressed up every time they see you constantly checking hair,makeup etc,

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    okay well personally wheni liek a guy, i'll be tongue tied around them or i'll think really hard of something to say, sometimes i even try to avoid the guy because i'm worried i won't be able to think of something to say and he'll think i'm boring.. so every girl is different the best thing to do is to ask the girl cuz if you don't then you'll never be sure.

    can you please answer my question? thanks :)

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtUZ9...

  • 1 decade ago

    she might bite her lip while talking to u or looking at u or just kinda keep looking over at you. if they try to make their body look like they have more of a perfect body so u might be interestedn its just a couple ideas

  • 1 decade ago

    it could be any thing, but it could be a tease as well. but dont take it too seriously, or you may be heart broken for some people. not all.

    Source(s): experience.
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